SJC2008 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Hi the lady from my last thread said some event or something got moved to Saturday so she said she has to reschedule and said "Mabye we can meet for happy hour next week" So I've never really dealt with women cancelling dates but from what I've read here about women online should I even bother?? She did offer a reschedule but didn't offer a specific date so what do yall think??
persevere Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 I think the best response is to tell her "That might work. I'm pretty busy next week. Let me get back with you" Wait a few days and then contact her with one night you are available. If you say "Sure, Tuesday, Wednesday, or Friday", it shows her there's not much competition for her company with you. I know. I know. That's a game, but well...anyway...
Author SJC2008 Posted May 12, 2012 Author Posted May 12, 2012 Yeah I know what you mean about offering a bunch of days, it just looks bad. I texted her back. I was cool about it, teased her a little and she texted back pretty fast so I'll give her the B of the D. I didn't offer a specific day I just said I'll catch up with her. Now she seems to be OK about texting but when I reschedule should I call just to be on the safe side?
Sid6.7 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 I will have to disagree with my counterpart, sid3. Do not call, in fact your time is being wasted. Isn't your time valuable? I mean what makes her time more valuable than yours? I don't know about you but when I arranged time for someone I mean it. You have two options. You leave a voice mail (or in person) asking how you are going to make this up to me. And see how it goes, and decide from there. Or you move move on in your quest. Immediately.
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Whether or not you pursue is up to you. In either case, start looking at other chicks.
Author SJC2008 Posted May 12, 2012 Author Posted May 12, 2012 I will have to disagree with my counterpart, sid3. Do not call, in fact your time is being wasted. Isn't your time valuable? I mean what makes her time more valuable than yours? I don't know about you but when I arranged time for someone I mean it. You have two options. You leave a voice mail (or in person) asking how you are going to make this up to me. And see how it goes, and decide from there. Or you move move on in your quest. Immediately. Thanks but if I was a woman and I had to cancel and the man said "How can you make it up to me" I'd think he's nuts given that we haven't met. She did let me know the day before instead of the day of so that adds weight if you will to me believing her so we'll see what happens. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt right now without getting my hopes up. This will be the 3rd woman in a row from this site to cancel a 1st date lol.
Sid6.7 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Thanks but if I was a woman and I had to cancel and the man said "How can you make it up to me" I'd think he's nuts given that we haven't met. She did let me know the day before instead of the day of so that adds weight if you will to me believing her so we'll see what happens. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt right now without getting my hopes up. This will be the 3rd woman in a row from this site to cancel a 1st date lol. Oh! From this site? Good luck, and I mean that you'll need it.
Author SJC2008 Posted May 12, 2012 Author Posted May 12, 2012 Oh! From this site? Good luck, and I mean that you'll need it. Lol sorry for the confusion I meant a particular site I've been using. I don't think I'd date anyone from this site bc they already know my history lol. I didn't know you could meet people on here can you really?
Sid6.7 Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 Lol sorry for the confusion I meant a particular site I've been using. I don't think I'd date anyone from this site bc they already know my history lol. I didn't know you could meet people on here can you really? I know I am kind of new here but I did notice a small icon in the profile section that resembles a small heart, much like the favicon in the address bar up top. I clicked on it the other day and it brought up all the users here that are single, including the female users. Some even have profile pictures SJ, that's right, pictures. Head shot pictures, you know you can't go wrong with those! That's quality right there and we all know it. If this deal you are talking about doesn't work out maybe give that a shot.
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