moonbunny001 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 I (19) have been dating my boyfriend now for a solid three years and we've had a couple of bumps recently. However, during this time another man (25) has come along and has even given me more romantic gifts than my current boyfriend has in 3 years. All the feelings I feel for my boyfriend are amplified 10x when I'm even near this other guy. (I have not cheated or anything) I don't know if I should give up everything to be with this other guy or not, please give me advice.
louise_23 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 I (19) have been dating my boyfriend now for a solid three years and we've had a couple of bumps recently. However, during this time another man (25) has come along and has even given me more romantic gifts than my current boyfriend has in 3 years. All the feelings I feel for my boyfriend are amplified 10x when I'm even near this other guy. (I have not cheated or anything) I don't know if I should give up everything to be with this other guy or not, please give me advice. never leave the one you love for the one you like.
Author moonbunny001 Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 I'm not in love with my boyfriend anymore it's more like best friends. Which is really sad.
louise_23 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 I'm not in love with my boyfriend anymore it's more like best friends. Which is really sad. cant you work on it? id give it a try at least. how much would your life change to lose this guy? i dont think you should ever jump straight from one relationship to another relationship btw. its easy to lose yourself. also, does the other guy know youre in a relationship?? id be very wary if this. some people want you because someone else has you. once hes got you, will he try to chase someone else he cant have??
Author moonbunny001 Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 We have tried but the feeling just isn't there anymore. However, both me and the other guy are in relationships but he's willing to give her up; which makes me feel terrible. Yes I am afraid that's the only reason he wants me but, he's been doing sweet things for me and sweet talking me for a long time now.
louise_23 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 We have tried but the feeling just isn't there anymore. However, both me and the other guy are in relationships but he's willing to give her up; which makes me feel terrible. Yes I am afraid that's the only reason he wants me but, he's been doing sweet things for me and sweet talking me for a long time now. if hes willing to.give her up why hasnt he already?? hes ONLY going to break.up.with her if he can get you?? im not trying to be harsh but....
dbave Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Everything about this seems wrong. 1.) He's willing to give up on his relationship just like that and immediately go into another?! 2.) He's giving you romantic gifts that top your bf's prior gifts and he's not even in a relationship with you. Buying romantic gifts prior to a relationship is a red flag. It means he thinks he can buy you out with gifts. The best transition you can do is leave the current relationship on the basis that it isn't working out anymore and start dating again. Start dating this guy and other guys as well. You'll soon found out whether he's serious about leaving his girl. Either case, you should depart from your relationship on the grounds that it is a waste of time and isn't going anywhere. Your still young so you should be good.
matte123 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 I'm not in love with my boyfriend anymore it's more like best friends. Which is really sad. I think you should break it off with your boyfriend since you are not in love with him anymore and you have feelings for another man. It would be unfair towards him if you stay in this relationship. If you stay with him, he would be investing his time, effort, and emotions into a person (you) who's not in love with him when he could be looking for someone who does love him.
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