SmileFace Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Yeah, I guess in situations where guys ignore me, I should... what? Throw a drink in their face? Get some of those runway lights? You can't MAKE people be attracted to you. Why be positive about the fact that they aren't? What would that get me, except the desire to put a bullet in my brain? At least being angry gives me the energy to keep going. You can survive a lot longer on bitterness than you can hopelessness. Believe what you want hun, I agree.
Author verhrzn Posted June 2, 2012 Author Posted June 2, 2012 I think she just wants to vent rather than receive advice. At this point in the thread.... yeah, I do. I am sick to death of being told I should be positive in the face of utter rejection by men, as they waltz around agonizing that they can't get hot and perfect girlfriends.
ATrainofAngels Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Yeah, but she actually asks for advice. So pointless... all the best to her. Like I said, Some people are so afraid of the unknown that they would rather be trapped in a terrible situation that they're comfortable in than try to do something about it. Really same thing as those women who are beaten by their husbands who are afraid to escape. Low self esteem and a fear of the unknown
Author verhrzn Posted June 2, 2012 Author Posted June 2, 2012 read what I said about 6 posts up about her wanting to be miserable and lonely, it's honest to god truth Yeah, I should just go lasso a fat guy who is only dating me cause he's desperate. That will somehow make me happy. Gimme a break. I have tried everything suggested on these boards, and nothing has worked, because men will never change. Until I can swap out bodies, I am stuck being unattractive to men, and since looks are the primary thing that matters, that means I am SOL.
ATrainofAngels Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Yeah, I should just go lasso a fat guy who is only dating me cause he's desperate. That will somehow make me happy. Gimme a break. I have tried everything suggested on these boards, and nothing has worked, because men will never change. Until I can swap out bodies, I am stuck being unattractive to men, and since looks are the primary thing that matters, that means I am SOL. Read this over and over again, then stop blaming us for your problems yet I see women who are much much less attractive than you in happy relationships all the time It must be a miracle :laugh:
SmileFace Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 Like I said, Some people are so afraid of the unknown that they would rather be trapped in a terrible situation that they're comfortable in than try to do something about it. Really same thing as those women who are beaten by their husbands who are afraid to escape. Low self esteem and a fear of the unknown I agree to a point. Sitting here bitching about guys and minimal amount of trying sure isn't going to help. I am not even saying what she may be saying is wrong. However everyone isn't like the guys she describes and she rather be stuck with this belief than try. She is taking a couple bad situations to equate to a life of misery.
ATrainofAngels Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 I agree to a point. Sitting here bitching about guys and minimal amount of trying sure isn't going to help. I am not even saying what she may be saying is wrong. However everyone isn't like the guys she describes and she rather be stuck with this belief than try. She is taking a couple bad situations to equate to a life of misery. If it was that bad, the only women who ever had boyfriends would be perfect looking fitness models and pornstars. We all know that's complete nonsense and we all see everyday average women in happy relationships all the time
SmileFace Posted June 2, 2012 Posted June 2, 2012 If it was that bad, the only women who ever had boyfriends would be perfect looking fitness models and pornstars. We all know that's complete nonsense and we all see everyday average women in happy relationships all the time Yeah, that is true. I think I am a great catch and still have a hard time finding a relationship. Yes, I do find myself feeling resentful sometimes, however patience is the key. Also trying to learn from my mistakes helps too. Not saying I am always the reason why my relationships don't work but I am the common factor. However this attitude she has can not be a less bit attractive in person so...
Juninho Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 why do the woman on this site think Nice guy = boring, shy, awkward, nerdy?
ThaWholigan Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 why do the woman on this site think Nice guy = boring, shy, awkward, nerdy? Blame all the boring, shy, awkward, nerdy guys who call themselves nice guys .
corunna Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 I have been lurking here for a while. This is my first post. Let me give a little back ground . First of all I grew up in a Blue Collar house hold. I was told by my Dad that I was the pretty one. My Sister was the smart one.She was also told this. My parent's set me up to also be a Blue Collar worker. I didn't try so hard in school becauses of this. I actually threw away collage pappers that was sent to me. Don't they know my Sister was the smart one. I followed my Ma & Dad's foot steps into the Blue Collar worker feild. Because I thought that was the best I could do. I worked in GM as a porduction worker. I was told I was Beautiful. oSister was the smart one. Anyway's I got married to a really smart guy an so did she marry a smart guy. Her man was collage grad, mine was Blue Collare. skill traids. Just as smart. I tried to find guy's that were smarter then me just because I was the pretty one while my Sister was the smart one. My parent's even had braces put on her teeth to improve her looks. After a while mid 20's. I really was the pretty one. I had guy's falling all over me.I got bitter an all. But then I figured out. It all comes down to the pussy, or what ever. Now I know I wasn't that hard to look at. (Ever in my life.)Long Story short, I think it's what you Belive. Foot note I suck at spelling an grammer. Don't judge me on that/ I know when it come down to it. It's what you think of yourself. If your not too hard to look at Sorry if you can;t read my grammer or spelling. Peace Out!
corunna Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 Sorry, I didn't proof read, Now it looks Stupid. Again sorry. I guess I;m not a lot of help now. . Dumb Ass!! That was Fun.
mesmerized Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 There is no such thing as nice guys. There are men who have the means/ability to be players and men who don't, those who don't like to call themselves "nice guys".
WonderKid Posted June 3, 2012 Posted June 3, 2012 I am a nice guy, but nowhere near boring. Awkward, hell yes. Weird, hell yes. Nerdy, a lil bit. Different, hell yes and I love it. But,I am a nice guy as to saying I treat women like women. I am a gentleman and I see nothing wrong with it. I got over the "Bad Guy over Nice Guy" scenario long time ago. Women will choose whatever they want. When they are young they have no idea anyways. I don't even have an idea. I just would like a person to be comfortable with and I can be myself around. I don't see pornstars or supermodels that attractive at all. I don't know why. Maybe because in today's world all those women are fake. I like it back in the 70s and 80s when the bodies were natural like Venessa Del Rio. No plastic. Just cuz I'm a nice guy I don't feel no one is obligated to give me a chance. You will like who you like. Really it's just down to looks. If a bad guy looks sexy he could treat the girl like a dog but she will still stay with him. If the nice guy meets a sexy headturner he'd do anything to stay with her despite being stepped on. But keeping up the bitterness and the shield, is nowhere near a bad thing. You just gotta know when to turn it down. You could end up being bitter to a person that really favors you and that's never good.
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