joystickd Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 This song describes a lot of people. Why not accept that men and women are different and their approach to attraction and dating are different? I know some of you know about it but have not fully accepted it. You all want the opposite sex to have the same approach you do. Look at men: Why can't women see that I'm a nice guy they all want the jerks? Women: Why do men want sex without establishing a strong emotional connection first? Women want emotional connections from men to show that he is into them. Men want physical contact from women to know she is into them. Both sides want to deal with the opposite sex in a way where the other person is doing the most work. Why not reach a middleground and compromise? Its seems people these date focus on what they want and are not willing to compromise. You have a better chance of getting what you want if you are willing to give what they want and that goes for both men and women
Author joystickd Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 I meant these days not these date sorry
sid3 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 True, its a fact we now live in a very "its all about me" society. And I'd argue that those that are willing to compromise on the non deal breaker factors are far more likely to find happiness that much more easily.
RedRobin Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Sorry. OP, you can't slut shame one day, then complain another day when women don't want to sleep with you. If all you are doing is pushing for sex ASAP, you are acting like a low-class jerk in my book. That's how it goes.
Author joystickd Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 Sorry. OP, you can't slut shame one day, then complain another day when women don't want to sleep with you. If all you are doing is pushing for sex ASAP, you are acting like a low-class jerk in my book. That's how it goes. This thread was not about sleeping with women. Its about compromise in the realm of dating and relationships so let's get it right here. Physical contact to reciprocate interest is as simple as a kiss. I merely used what men and women want as an example to point out that we all want our way and not willing to compromise. I look for sex but in the context of me wanting a relationship I want certain things like a woman that doesn't have an exceedingly high body count. I say slut when you are ashamed to keep it real about your past. I keep it real about my past women that get to know me know everything. When you have a procedure done at the hospital they have you sign an informed consent. Informed meaning they tell you everything about the procedure benefits and risks. Dating should be the same way. I'm willing to reveal everything so I expect the same in return but anyway this wasn't about that. It was actually about men and women unwillingness to compromise in general
Author joystickd Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 True, its a fact we now live in a very "its all about me" society. And I'd argue that those that are willing to compromise on the non deal breaker factors are far more likely to find happiness that much more easily. That is true
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