CATCH2287 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I met this girl a year ago and fell for her personality right off the bat. i didnt want a relationship but it was like a movie where a girl comes into your sight and you cant keep your eyes off her. Well i asked her out on a date and she agreed and she was a tough one to crack. I was patient with her and waited 7 months (the longest ive ever waited for a gf) i knew she had commitment issues and i respected it and she asked me to be patient and i was. Alas, 7 months down she finally asked me to be her BF, i was the happiest ive ever been. She is like my dream woman. well we were only together for four months before she dumped me which broke my damn heart. She is a hard headed person and always had anger problems but always apologized but kept being mean once in awhile and stupid me i accepted her for what it was because i was fallin for her. well 3 months in she started to act weird and wasnt as affectionate to me and i couldnt figure it out...because she would talk about getting married to me, having a house, kids, a future...telling me she only dated *******s who treated her bad but then i came along.>THAT MADe me feel real good, before she would tell me she is not going anywhere and breaking up was the last thing on her mind. she wouldnt talk about how she felt but she came around eventually. i hardly ever got upset at her. well she dumped me monday because of a fight we had on fri which was really small that we dont remember but to her it was too big of a fight and we couldnt go back to how we were. i was nice and respectful but not like super nice....i put my foot down and didnt let her walk all over me..but on monday she hinted to break up but never did. so i took the hint. She started to cry and i did too. She told me she wanted me to call her because she is there for me but i cant do that after all she has said and done and did this to me and when i told her that..she cried even more....then out of no where, she said "lets try one more time" i said "this isnt a game where u try and then give up" its either you do or dont. She told me she doesnt know what to do..i asked if she wanted to be with me she said i dont know..single....i dont know either...then i told her i guess this is it...and she had the nerve to say "lets meet up in a week"?? i was like WHAT THE ****!!! she told me she hasnt felt me for awhile but the feeling comes and goes??? like im sad and mad at the same time..Im a nice guys who has a career, going to school, head on right, treats women with respect, opens doors...all that jazz and thats how my parents raised me. will she ever regret it? do you think she wants to call or text me?? im soo confused on what this woman wants because i waited for her to ask me out and i figured she then knew what she wanted... im sad...please dont be mean on comments...im hurtin here..
marsha80 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 well, stop allowing your ego do the talking and ask yourself if you'd regret not seeing her a week from now. It's about understanding each other (even until the very end) and that is what brings the best peace/closure to move on. Regret will not resurface months from now .
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