jennisfora Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 my ex texted me again today, saying he wants closure and forgiveness and wants to know how i am. it has been almost a month NC, and i have been doing pretty well lately. anyway, i was planning on calling him soon to see if he wanted to catch up but not until i could handle it. not care how it turned out. no expectations, just two people chatting. anyway, i was feeling like eh why not, so i called him, he answered right away, and said thank you for calling me, i didnt like how mad you were last time we talked, and i am going for training for work next week..wanted to know how you have been... i cut him short, and said, how about you call me after your training and we'll see if we can talk and catch up. he said okay. i know everyone is into NC, and it has helped me a ton, but, there was no abuse, dysfunction here, and as long as i go into any meeting knowing that nothing will change, i should be okay. he hasn't mentioned trying again, although he sounded anxious/needy on the phone, and in his texts. but, i know unless he says he wants to get back together, it means nothing.. sounds like he wants to know i dont hate him. i dont, if thats all he wants, i hope we can meet chat a little and part on friendly terms. trying not to fear rejection, as i am not going to bring up reconciliation, if he brings it up, we'll go there, but i am not going to bring it up. we'll see he will be traiing for a week, and i dont know where ill be at in a week. i just have to remember worst case scenario, nothing changes. im okay with that. least that can happen is we will both be able to look back and have one last good memory. if it is about closure, i will probably not hear from him again. i guess im not looking for advice so much, as just putting this out there, i will update you guys with what happens when or if anything happens.
worldgonewrong Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 my ex texted me again today, saying he wants closure and forgiveness and wants to know how i am. He dumped you, right? And he's making a request for 'closure'? Eff him.
Author jennisfora Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 it has me puzzled to. i think he may be one of those people who loses sleep over people hating him.
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