amythan Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Hi there, After being in messy relationships with players and unavailable men I met this guy. He is the opposite, and even though he is not my type I decided to give him an opportunity. Just to break the pattern of bad choices. We met on saturday two weeks ago, went out with friends and I stayed at his place. He asked for my number and from this day he texts me every night. He asks about my week, my plans .. I went abroad last w/e and when i got back he said that he is sick in bed but hopefully he will be recovered by friday so we could meet up (and i could make his week brighter ) ... i said yes and .... NO PLANS. He contacted me everyday and tonight he said that he cannot wait for the w/e and that's it. I said yeah, me too and he said good night. I just do not get it. Does he want to go out with me or not ? At this point i am making other plans and really losing interest. And if he is not interested why is he texting me two weeks straight ?? Uffff my bad choices at least were more clear and straight forward ...
Eddie Edirol Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 How bout you ((GASP)) ask him what plans he wanted to make with you so you can plan around it? 1
Author amythan Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 Scared why ? I said yes and I reply all his text is a timely manner ...
Meg717 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Just ask him! Similar thing happened to me. I waited all day Saturday and didn't hear anything, finally I text him and just said "Hey did you still want to hang out tonight?" He responded happily with where we could meet up.. and we had a great night. And he's asked me to meet up since then so it didn't scare him off...
Stellar Wench Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Hi there, After being in messy relationships with players and unavailable men I met this guy. He is the opposite, and even though he is not my type I decided to give him an opportunity. Just to break the pattern of bad choices. We met on saturday two weeks ago, went out with friends and I stayed at his place. He asked for my number and from this day he texts me every night. He asks about my week, my plans .. I went abroad last w/e and when i got back he said that he is sick in bed but hopefully he will be recovered by friday so we could meet up (and i could make his week brighter ) ... i said yes and .... NO PLANS. He contacted me everyday and tonight he said that he cannot wait for the w/e and that's it. I said yeah, me too and he said good night. I just do not get it. Does he want to go out with me or not ? At this point i am making other plans and really losing interest. And if he is not interested why is he texting me two weeks straight ?? Uffff my bad choices at least were more clear and straight forward ...Don't waste your time on boys who don't make their intentions clear. Did you sleep with him when you stayed at his place?
sal110104 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I had similar thing happen - although we never even made it to the first date. All these sweet texts & then when it came time to meet up - he dropped off the face of the planet! Who knows why - maybe these guys are insecure?, in another realtionship?, just completely crazy? I think if he wantes to see you - he would make it known. Friends always say - If a man wants to be with you - nothing will stop him. I try to remember that when I want to make excuses for bad behavior I personally have a hard time igonoring someones text - even if I dont want to hear from someone - I will text back even though I keep it short - but to just ignore -I dont have the heart for that.
mtber75 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Hi there, After being in messy relationships with players and unavailable men I met this guy. He is the opposite, and even though he is not my type I decided to give him an opportunity. Just to break the pattern of bad choices. We met on saturday two weeks ago, went out with friends and I stayed at his place. He asked for my number and from this day he texts me every night. He asks about my week, my plans .. I went abroad last w/e and when i got back he said that he is sick in bed but hopefully he will be recovered by friday so we could meet up (and i could make his week brighter ) ... i said yes and .... NO PLANS. He contacted me everyday and tonight he said that he cannot wait for the w/e and that's it. I said yeah, me too and he said good night. I just do not get it. Does he want to go out with me or not ? At this point i am making other plans and really losing interest. And if he is not interested why is he texting me two weeks straight ?? Uffff my bad choices at least were more clear and straight forward ... Well it seems that your too bored with this nice, timid guy? Why don't you suggest a plan because this guy is clearly pretty shy.
Emilia Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Scared why ? I said yes and I reply all his text is a timely manner ... Do you initiate any contact? If not, he probably thinks you are just going along just to humour him. Maybe he is losing interest if he isn't perceiving enough of it from you.
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