supergirl1213 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Me: I got my gift from work! Him: congrats 20 minutes later: my little jess is growing up so fast lol me: i know well time flies when you're having fun him: and to think i thought you hated working there me: the people who work there are cool so that makes up for a lot of things him: yes we are me: ehh idk about you though... him: now why you gotta say that lol me: just kidding you are one of my faves him: i know him: just wanted to hear it
dasein Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Welcome to the forum. Sorry, that conversation busted my decoder ring, no idea what's going on there.
matte123 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I think he might be flirting based on "him: just wanted to hear it ". It's hard to tell from that conversation.
Author supergirl1213 Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 hmm really. well I have a crush on this guy and I think he has a crush on me as well. Isn't it saying something that when he said congrats and i didnt say anything back (bc i didn't have anything to say) that he texted me again 20 minutes later to keep the convo going
Phennyphen Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 From the fact that he texted you twice in a row when you didnt reply I would think that he's ineterested..possibly..does he text you a lot? If it's just a one off he might just be bored. Btw, is he a lot older than you? IMO calling you 'little Jess' is a bit creepy to me
dasein Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Btw, is he a lot older than you? IMO calling you 'little Jess' is a bit creepy to me Yeah agree with the above. It's like calling someone "missy" or "child." Patronizing and condescending. Depends on the individual dynamic and course of conduct at play in the end though. Some women respond well to being "daddied" some don't.
Author supergirl1213 Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 No we are the same age. And we have been texting more frequently in the past couple weeks. We playfully tease one another, joke with eachother. I feel like he gives me this look a lot, like he really looks into my eyes. I think he likes me... lol
Author supergirl1213 Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 Also I have to correct that--- he didn't say "LITTLE" he just said "My jess" SORRY MY BAD!!!. idk why I included that hahaha
Author supergirl1213 Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 lol he did not say "little" pretend i didn't type that. idk why i did that haha
Eddie Edirol Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 If he has your number and is texting you for weeks, but doesnt call, and hasnt asked you out yet, then he isnt interested. A few weeks is enough for a shy guy to get warmed up to you enough to say "hey lets get coffee." The text "I just wanted to hear it" to me, in this scenario doesnt look like flirting, it sounds like he enjoys attention from you, but thats it. Hope you can prove me wrong.
mtber75 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I say kinda of flirting because he's using LOL a lot. But it could also be that he is a joker so I would text him more probing questions to see if he bites or get the hint.
Author supergirl1213 Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 Hmm ok. I also think since we work together he is.worried everyone will find out and talk. I guess I will just wait it out and see if anything happens.
threebyfate Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Him 20 minutes later: my jess is growing up so fast lolA little friendly flirt. me: the people who work there are cool so that makes up for a lot of thingsDeliberate bait for more flirtation. him: yes we areHe takes the bait. me: ehh idk about you though...A neg. him: now why you gotta say that lolPretend offense. me: just kidding you are one of my favesAn opportunity to throw a compliment his way. him: i know him: just wanted to hear itHe knows you like him.
sid3 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 He knows you like him. I'd lean more towards he's still not quite sure.
Author supergirl1213 Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 thanks for the comments. I think he does know that I am interested in him (or is at least thinking it...) because I have been paying him more attention lately. He has been paying me more attention lately as well. I think he may be interested but other times I'm not so sure because he hasn't made a move.
Author supergirl1213 Posted May 12, 2012 Author Posted May 12, 2012 So he told me he's going to go home and annoy me tonight (i guess by texting me?) idk... we'll see. I'll let you know what he sends (if he sends me anything)
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