truth_seeker Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Maybe I'm going through a rut? Maybe I'm running into the wrong women? I'm just not connecting with anyone right now and am not sure if it's me. I do get approached by women, and have dated several in my life where they wanted a full commitment but I broke it off because I just didn't feel in my heart I could see myself building a life with each of them. I will not lead someone on and use them. Lately, women will stand there, face is red, not even look me in the eye, mutter some words and then disappear. It's like I'm talking to a robot. Two seconds later they're flirty and talkative with another guy. One younger girl in particular I tried my hardest to connect with and she would run away and be so elusive. I gave up, but as soon as I did, she would reach out to me in some way to make me think she had interest. I'd make a move and she would smile, giggle and run away again. This girl is 30 years old! Just frustrating to meet a woman I'm both attracted to and can talk to.
dasein Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Just a bad streak of low quality, not your fault. There are several of these types of women whom I might be interested in dating in my life, but every time I see them despite being all over me physically, "call me!" yaddayadda, yet if I ever do call them, the tude I get is "why on earth is this guy calling me?" So have learned to spot attention whoring a mile away and suggest you do the same.
Author truth_seeker Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 Just a bad streak of low quality, not your fault. There are several of these types of women whom I might be interested in dating in my life, but every time I see them despite being all over me physically, "call me!" yaddayadda, yet if I ever do call them, the tude I get is "why on earth is this guy calling me?" So have learned to spot attention whoring a mile away and suggest you do the same. I hope you're right. At times I get tempted to turn the tables and play them. I did that once, twice in the past and felt guilty afterwards. I'm not in the business of trying to mess with people's feelings. It's happened to me and the feeling sucks.
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