Caius Ballad Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Key word: Logical If you say something like it's because of love it's an illogical statement. Love doesn't exist period. What you and him are experiencing are a certain group of emotions induced by chemical reactions by your brain. So a guy can easily replicate those emotions with a legal prostitute which means there is no reason to waste money year after year on you. 1
serial muse Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 No. As you yourself said, in another thread: I see NO shame in take the less tedious frustrating path.
verhrzn Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Why should we?... If you don't want to date us, then don't date us. That is the logical course of action, not demanding the other person convince you. 5
bean1 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Because I cook delicious sandwiches I'm sure a prostitute would as well, but who wants to pay $100+/hour for just a sandwich? You could get a $10 prostitute to do it as well but I wouldn't trust eating it. (and yes I do make a fresh sandwich every morning for my boyfriend)
Imported Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Key word: Logical If you say something like it's because of love it's an illogical statement. Love doesn't exist period. What you and him are experiencing are a certain group of emotions induced by chemical reactions by your brain. So a guy can easily replicate those emotions with a legal prostitute which means there is no reason to waste money year after year on you. You are wrong. Period. If you don't understand, that is your problem. You are like the fat kid that never gets picked to play ball with and than makes up some stupid reasoning why playing ball is wrong. When you're old and all alone, you'll probably change your mind if you haven't killed yourself already.
zengirl Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 If love is chemical reactions in your brain (I'd say infatuation is but love is more complex than that, though can be marked by actual physiological and chemical reactions in our bodies and brains), then it DOES exist. It even has physical form in that case. At any rate, I'm married, so certainly no one should date me at the moment. And I'd certainly never 'make a case' for myself. That seems an illogical thing to do. What logical reasons do you have why someone should date you? And why can't love be logical? Many people wish for love to defy logic and sweep them away (male and female) but some people like their love logical. That seems a choice to me.
joystickd Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Men need to stop trying to get women to logically explain anything when it comes to dating and in that same sense women need to stop try to get men to feel things that are not there. Men and women have different approaches things would be better when people finally accept it 1
TaraMaiden Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Key word: Logical Because we're better than the alternative. 1
Feelsgoodman Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 (and yes I do make a fresh sandwich every morning for my boyfriend) I guess in this date and age, making your boyfriend a sandwich (and a fresh one, no less) would be considered practically a heroic deed..
darkmoon Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 OP - why, then, is dating you better than hiring a male escort? 2
d'Arthez Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 You can't explain logic with logic. Irrational outcomes can be rational too. 2
Imajerk17 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Because I cook delicious sandwiches I'm sure a prostitute would as well, but who wants to pay $100+/hour for just a sandwich? You could get a $10 prostitute to do it as well but I wouldn't trust eating it. (and yes I do make a fresh sandwich every morning for my boyfriend) Aren't you married or am I confusing you with someone else?
Els Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I... really don't think anyone even wants to convince you, OP. I for one am glad for the women around you that you see 'no reason to bother dating them'. 2
manup Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Because I cook delicious sandwiches I'm sure a prostitute would as well, but who wants to pay $100+/hour for just a sandwich? You could get a $10 prostitute to do it as well but I wouldn't trust eating it. (and yes I do make a fresh sandwich every morning for my boyfriend) Cook? You make sammies, you don't cook them. 1
manup Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Love can be measured chemically so what's your point? Women offer chemical stimulation. You're also failing to realize that "love" is more than the chemical release resulting from sex. There are also feelings of longing and a list of others that you won't be able to experience with an escort. Some people may not value feelings apart from sex and if you're one of those people then I can see why escorts may suit you just fine, but others might want more.
indoubt Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Huh? Isn't it your job to decide why you want to date a certain person, and not the other way around?
Radu Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Because we're better than the alternative. I don't know, those Christian priests that decided to forego everything and go on a mountain, removed from civilization for decades usually live to very old ages and seem happy. Makes one think about what could cause the skewed gender ratio's in retirement homes. Maybe countries Saudi Arabia have the right ideea when it comes to women.
udolipixie Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 (edited) The logical reason for any person no matter the gender or orientation to date someone- they find him/her an attractive, interesting, fun to be around, and sexually/romantically compatible partner who will be a contributor not a burden or liability. I don't see many guys giving gals a reason to monogamously date them much less be in a committed relationship considering overweight is the norm in my country and it seems like most guys have a hateful, bitter, and/or negative attitude towards gals. I think I may go the escort route as many gals I know/met have less fuss and you can get a hottie. Edited May 11, 2012 by udolipixie
123321 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Cook? You make sammies, you don't cook them. Unless it's a delicious hot sammich like a reuben or a hamburger or a meatball or maybe even a meatloaf sammich.
123321 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Sex Satellite TV Sandwiches ? That good? Someone to make a warm spot in bed? Someone to be legitimately over concerned when you have a minor injury? 1
Star Gazer Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Someone to make a warm spot in bed? Someone to be legitimately over concerned when you have a minor injury? Yeah! That too! Plus... Sense of humor Strong suction
Taramere Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 Key word: Logical If you say something like it's because of love it's an illogical statement. Love doesn't exist period. There you go. That's exactly why you should date women. If you don't, you're going to wake up one day (probably sooner rather than later) and discover that you've turned into Sheldon Cooper, but without the IQ. 1
bean1 Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 (edited) Aren't you married or am I confusing you with someone else? I am 'common law married'. This is not recognized here (I got 'married' in BC). I live in Quebec so sometimes I mix the terms up, here in French you would refer to your legal husband as your live-in boyfriend, and your live-in boyfriend as your husband, because the term is the same in French (conjoint for both) that's more of a language thing sorry! The term "chum" or "blonde" is used for lik a high school boyfriend/girlfriend. Likewise, whether you are just dating or married or 10 years, you cannot change your surname to your husbands, you keep your maiden name, so there is no social distinction (our children all have different surnames from us women, whereas elsewhere this would indicate being a single mom or whatever). Marriage rates are very very low here, it is not something people do much anymore. Very few families with parents under 40 are legally married but all are recognized the same. That was long... sorry! A bit of a cultural insight to strange French Canada. Edited May 11, 2012 by bean1
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