Shinobi Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I shared my long story some days ago but there is something I am wondering so I'll appreciate any of your thoughts... Two months ago I caught my gf of 2 and half years on the "crime scene" in action- she was kissing with someone in a club. I said nothing- just turned around and never looked back. I cut all contacts with her. She also did not say anything- no text, no call. I honestly expected something like "sorry that you had to find out in this way, all the best in life". But- NOTHING... Do you think she has any consciousness or she is just coward? I never did her wrong, this came out of the blue while sugar talking to me about us... What do you think, what is the reason for her to keep the silence? I do think that she has a lot to tell but that's me, maybe she doesn't think that way. Basically she left me for the other guy and now she is with him. It was terrible and there is some element of GIGS in her actions, I'm pretty sure. She is 20 by the way. Do you think that keeping this inside will make her speak someday? And one more thing- 10 days ago me and her were at the same club and she did not stop watching me. Everytime I turned around her eyes were already on me. Our eyes crossed once for several seconds and I smiled and looked away. I know her look and it was not only curiousity there. What could that mean? Maybe she still has feelings for me... Do not get me wrong- I do not want her back, neither will I take her. Just there is some kind of feeling for job still unfinished...
PegNosePete Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Do you think she has any consciousness or she is just coward? I never did her wrong, this came out of the blue while sugar talking to me about us... What do you think, what is the reason for her to keep the silence? Who cares man? It's not your business or problem any more. You stopped talking to her and she hasn't said anything to you. It's quite clear that she doesn't give a flying carp about you or your feelings or your relationship. What else do you need to know? NC and move on buddy. 1
Author Shinobi Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 Who cares man? It's not your business or problem any more. You stopped talking to her and she hasn't said anything to you. It's quite clear that she doesn't give a flying carp about you or your feelings or your relationship. What else do you need to know? NC and move on buddy. Yup, same opinion as yours and exactly what I am doing but I was just wondering what is really in her head because the things are not always as they seem... I do not know why but I think she might try to apologize after time.
Boynextdoor Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Yup, same opinion as yours and exactly what I am doing but I was just wondering what is really in her head because the things are not always as they seem... I do not know why but I think she might try to apologize after time. Honestly dude if that was her intention she could have just stopped the act and went straight to you. And said blah blah. Well while she was doing it and saw you there she must've wanted to make you even jealous.
Author Shinobi Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 Honestly dude if that was her intention she could have just stopped the act and went straight to you. And said blah blah. Well while she was doing it and saw you there she must've wanted to make you even jealous. Yes, I agree with you that for her it was pretty over some time before this happening. But you know women- some morning she will wake up and will cry without knowing why. This might have happened already, I'll never know. Maybe that's why she stared at me at the club 10 days ago... NC really plays with their curiousity.
Boynextdoor Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Yes, I agree with you that for her it was pretty over some time before this happening. But you know women- some morning she will wake up and will cry without knowing why. This might have happened already, I'll never know. Maybe that's why she stared at me at the club 10 days ago... NC really plays with their curiousity. I believe it does. My ex told me that she was sorry and just cant be with me. Sorry again and I should take care. Did not reply to this its been like 3 weeks since our break up. Thats what she said since day 1. Well in time il see NC's magic
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