kyle77 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Lately I am trying to get over my ex by just removing her from my life....my ex broke up with me 7 months ago but she was in my class in university so I was in constant contact with her. Now for about a month though I have had completely no contact and I really want to get over her for good. I am just wondering if this is the right approach though because I feel like when I see her again (maybe randomly in the summer or inevitably when university starts back up) that all my feelings will come rushing back....Im keeping busy and I am doing my best to not think about her I just want it to work not to end up backfiring.
ToyWithMe812 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Lately I am trying to get over my ex by just removing her from my life....my ex broke up with me 7 months ago but she was in my class in university so I was in constant contact with her. Now for about a month though I have had completely no contact and I really want to get over her for good. I am just wondering if this is the right approach though because I feel like when I see her again (maybe randomly in the summer or inevitably when university starts back up) that all my feelings will come rushing back....Im keeping busy and I am doing my best to not think about her I just want it to work not to end up backfiring. How could it possibly backfire? Not to sound cheesy dude, but stay the course. Time and acceptance, and a little leg down the road won't hurt either. Once this time gets there, look you are probably young, it will pass and no worries man. I say keep doin what you're doin and you'll get there. I know you might be looking for some magical "this is how you get her back" mojo, but it ain't happenin. Totally up to her. You are doin the right thing and keep kickin ass.
blotter Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Stay No Contact, keep busy, get into your hobbies, meet some new people and let time pass. Your emotions for her will fade and if/when you see her again it won't be a big deal.
black_shemer Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 ,well maybe we've got the same situation here.and from my last post here,they all advice to have a no contact at all so just keep doint wat u r ryt now.just like me,i control myself to text him even i just wanted to say hi.times comes wen i hink of him and just cry but i know someday,one day in my life,i will get over with this person and finally find d one who will love me back.i hope u too.goodluck!
rAFC Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 No contact is the way to go, because as I'm sure you have learned, seeing your ex often makes it very difficult to get over them. However, you probably won't get over your ex completely until you have a new relationship that is as good or better than your last one.
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