raurp2f Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 So my coworker started about 2 months ago and asked me about a month ago if I wanted to go to happy hour. Originally I thought this meant she liked me, but after we talked more she mentioned several guy friends that she goes to lunch with. I do like her and we laugh and have a good time working together. The problem is i'm living with my ex girlfriend so I couldn't invite her home or anything. I'm just not sure if the happy hour thing means she likes me or not.
sid3 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Yeah she probably likes you, at least as much as the rest of the guys she hangs out with. 1
manup Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Yeah she probably likes you, at least as much as the rest of the guys she hangs out with. ask the other guy friends if she gets around? then you might have a chance to bang her.
Author raurp2f Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 I don't think she's the get around type, but then again I've only known her for a few months. She seems very goal oriented and really thinks about her career a lot.
Author raurp2f Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 So we went to happy hour the other day and both had a good time. She was actually the first one that mentioned that she had a good time. She mentioned the 3rd was the last but then she mentioned that we should have one more. I want to ask her out, but not sure if I should because of the work situation. We both just finished school though and so we're going to leave sometime in the near future. In case she says no the awkwardness won't be for long.
dasein Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Ask away man, who knows how things will shape up in the future. Don't let a good option go by the wayside. Forget about embarrassment at rejection, the real embarrassment is in worrying too much about such things and letting that stall our efforts Good luck!
Author raurp2f Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 I think I will. I know she likes working with me and hanging out with me and has said she would like romance. Neither of us plan to be employed there in a couple months. So if it was a no the awkwardness wouldn't be around very long. The problem is how to ask. Do I ask her for happy hour again? Somehow get tickets to some show and say someone canceled on me? Do I straight up ask if she wants to go out on a date?
Author raurp2f Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 So it had been a few weeks since happy hour and she asked me out for dinner and drinks the other night. We hung out for a few hours walking all over trying to find cool bars and finally found a good restaurant. We did hug at the end, whatever that means. I'm still not sure if she likes me or what. There wasn't touching, but I did sense some leaning in by her. What do people here think? Thanks
runner Posted June 8, 2012 Posted June 8, 2012 So it had been a few weeks since happy hour and she asked me out for dinner and drinks the other night. We hung out for a few hours walking all over trying to find cool bars and finally found a good restaurant. We did hug at the end, whatever that means. I'm still not sure if she likes me or what. There wasn't touching, but I did sense some leaning in by her. What do people here think? Thanks doesn't sound like a very hot date. the happy hour thing, dinner, walking around, hug at the end- yea she might like you a bit but it sounds like you guys are in the 'friends zone'. did you even flirt at all ?
Author raurp2f Posted June 8, 2012 Author Posted June 8, 2012 Well she knows I just boke up with my ex a couple months ago. It would seem like a rebound if I asked her out in a way. I really don't like the idea of dating a coworker, but my time there is running up in a couple months anyways. There was a lot of laughing. I'm not sure it would be a long lasting thing just because we have some things that aren't in common. We have fun when we hang out though.
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