DjinnAgain Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 lasting all of 60 minutes from putting the profile up, answering the silly questions, and deleting it. Match one, , yes, seems nice. Wow, lots in common. I will come back and message him later after I think it over. Match two, what a cutie! I could message him. Third match clicked on... Ex husband. I decided I needed to doubt the quality of men available.
Art_Critic Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I would suggest you put it back up.. answer the questions about the type of man you want to make sure you don't bring the ex up and try it all again. 100-1 that you answered those questions with the idea that it would bring him up or just from bringing up the past in your head you answered the questions from habit... Time for a real re-do don't let him win...
SmileFace Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I remember when I started back at online dating. I joined a different site from where I met my ex - guess who was my top match. Which only convinced me to break no contact. Thanks OLD! Lol Don't let this stop you!!! Good luck
GardenDiva Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Online Dating Thanks, AC! I'm SO out of the loop...plus I'M OLD!
Author DjinnAgain Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 I got a few messages in the hour. I must be grumpier than when I was 19 and dating before... my openmindedness and willing to just see is at rock bottom levels, my willingness to [silently] criticize is way up. While I read.... A woman hanging over you in the picture you selected for your profile. Weird. Hello! I recognize a form message when I see it! Prefer someone fishing with a pole verse a net... If you go on about how intelligent you are, don't get factual questions wrong and then rate them as very important. (I am probably giving away the site here.) I think someone can have far more value than their IQ, but I do have a high IQ. I can't help but recognize both that you are wrong, and that the irony in that is striking. Honestly, the ex was just another reminder I'm not ready for a swim yet, just dipping my toe in, as I've been doing off and on for a while. Was being a little tongue in cheek.
Author DjinnAgain Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 I would suggest you put it back up.. answer the questions about the type of man you want to make sure you don't bring the ex up and try it all again. 100-1 that you answered those questions with the idea that it would bring him up or just from bringing up the past in your head you answered the questions from habit... Time for a real re-do don't let him win... I thought I did! "Would you be interested in a poly relationship? NO. importance: Mandatory." I know he's dating 3 women regularly now, one who has been around a bit longer than the divorce living with him, and others for fun -- he should be excluded! Mandatory - I do not think that word means what they think it means.
Author DjinnAgain Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 Thanks, AC! I'm SO out of the loop...plus I'M OLD! I didn't know it at first, either. I figured it out from context in the forum in another message. Just asking is probably much smarter.
GardenDiva Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I didn't know it at first, either. I figured it out from context in the forum in another message. Just asking is probably much smarter. Thanks, DA..didn't mean to derail your thread. Your posts are hysterical by the way! At least you're retaining your sense of humor through it all.
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