OhHey Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Wow, man that sucks and I know what you mean about can't breath. I just cannot fathom why some people can be so damn outspoken like that and not even think twice about how it effects people. I hate that ****....it makes you wonder if she's right and you end up obsessing over it. I can't stand bitches like that. I know how it feels, bro..... please try not to let it bother you....she's a bitch
OhHey Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 So you let a woman disrespect you in public and said nothing? Are you 8 years old? Seems to me she's the 8 year old here. What really is he going to say or do?
PhillyDude Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Seems to me she's the 8 year old here. What really is he going to say or do? What is he going to say? He could have verbally abused her and made her feel like sh*T too
OhHey Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 LMAO that was ****ing funny cuz I did that to so many lame guys over the yrs I lost count!! You know, just because we are guys doesn't mean we don't value our looks, and having women say things like that to our faces kills our manhood and hurts just as much as it does for you women. How would you take it if some guy said to you that you're ugly and won't go out with you? How would you take it?? You cannot give an honest answer until you have experienced it... My entire life was altered and ruined because of people like you..... think twice before telling people things like that...better yet, walk away and leave em alone.
OhHey Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 What is he going to say? He could have verbally abused her and made her feel like sh*T too Well having a girl that you planned to ask out, suddenly call yo ugly and ruining the moment kinda puts the halt on dishing out insults to her...besides...seems he is more mature about this and doesn't insult people by nature.
PhillyDude Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Well having a girl that you planned to ask out, suddenly call yo ugly and ruining the moment kinda puts the halt on dishing out insults to her...besides...seems he is more mature about this and doesn't insult people by nature. I want to know what is it about him that would make a teenager feel it's ok to disrespect him in public. Maybe he looks like a pushover or like a nerdy type? This situation doesn't sound normal
OhHey Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I want to know what is it about him that would make a teenager feel it's ok to disrespect him in public. Maybe he looks like a pushover or like a nerdy type? This situation doesn't sound normal He could be a nerdy type or a push-over or a cave man, who cares. She was a conceited bitch to say that to someone she doesn't even know anyways. She feels it's ok, because she was never shown to respect people....people that respect don't call people ugly .I can't stand being around people like that....not caring how it effects people saying **** like that and going about their day like normal. I couldn't live with myself calling someone ugly.....it hurts a lot....I know.
PhillyDude Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 He could be a nerdy type or a push-over or a cave man, who cares. She was a conceited bitch to say that to someone she doesn't even know anyways. She feels it's ok, because she was never shown to respect people....people that respect don't call people ugly .I can't stand being around people like that....not caring how it effects people saying **** like that and going about their day like normal. I couldn't live with myself calling someone ugly.....it hurts a lot....I know. I swear I feel she may have been joking because I don't see a female doing this in public. I mean it could be a guy who is crazy and she is then going to have to deal with all that
Anela Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 What is he going to say? He could have verbally abused her and made her feel like sh*T too Which shows that he has more class than she does. I remember being treated that way, and I was determined not to be nasty, just because someone had decided to be nasty to me - I didn't want to have that effect on anyone. You can be assertive and defend yourself, without making another person feel like s**t. I've done that twice, in the past two years, when I had just had enough - I wanted to hurt them as badly as they'd hurt me, and I was tired of turning my cheek. I lashed out, because I felt like hell, but it didn't make me feel any better.
PhillyDude Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Which shows that he has more class than she does. I remember being treated that way, and I was determined not to be nasty, just because someone had decided to be nasty to me - I didn't want to have that effect on anyone. You can be assertive and defend yourself, without making another person feel like s**t. I've done that twice, in the past two years, when I had just had enough - I wanted to hurt them as badly as they'd hurt me, and I was tired of turning my cheek. I lashed out, because I felt like hell, but it didn't make me feel any better. I would have said "I see you want me to slap the sh*T out of you for disrespecting me"
PhillyDude Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 LMAO yea Im miserable cuz of stupid asses like the op thinking he can get some when he cant. Im tired of ugly guys thinking they gotta shot w/ me when they dont!! Im not gonna make them think they do by being nice ok That's how I feel about ugly women on dating sites-lol I get offended when a ugly women thinks she has a chance with me.
crazylove Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 ....and back to the topic....sounds like you've had a lucky escape from this girl. What a shallow, rude and vile person she is. All I can say is karma;) Don't let her get you down, wow if I had someone approach me in public I'd be chuffed to bits! 1
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 LML are u for real??? How u gonna report freedom of speech? Thats how I feel so deal w/ it or stay out of the kitchen U might be pretty on the outside but your very ugly & sad on the inside. I cant believe girls like u are actually out there. I would never do what u do to anyone no matter what ok 'cause its just plain nasty & evil.
OhHey Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 LML are u for real??? How u gonna report freedom of speech? Thats how I feel so deal w/ it or stay out of the kitchen The OP doesn't need you calling him a stupid ass or any of your negative comment up there right now. The poor kid got his butt kicked big time today and comes here for some relief and comfort and a place to spill. Say something that can help him, not make him feel worse and what you said probably did make him feel worse.
Stupid Girl Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 LMAO yea Im miserable cuz of stupid asses like the op thinking he can get some when he cant. Im tired of ugly guys thinking they gotta shot w/ me when they dont!! Im not gonna make them think they do by being nice ok But the funny thing is...I can see your picture right there, and you're not exactly a model yourself (although gj at trying to hide your ugly with huge glasses!). So why couldn't an ugly guy think have a chance with you, if he doesn't share the same over-inflated sense of your attractiveness that you have? See, everybody has a different opinion of what is attractive. It's not so nice when someone shares a negative, uncalled for opinion of you, is it?
mortensorchid Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 That is cruel of her! The only things you can do or say in a situation like that is to just move on, she was/is a stranger. It's another when it's someone you interact with on a daily basis (ex. a coworker). On top of that, she's a complete and utter bitch. Chances are she doesn't have many good relationships in her life (ex. friendships that do not end in complete fall outs or disasters), it was nothing you did. In a way, I truly envy people like that. THey have never been confronted or even physically attacked, allowed to do and say anything and everything that they want without the slightest consequences. Once someone has a simple piece of information (ex. your favorite color is blue), they take it and rip you to shreads over it. And sometimes, you are to be the one to discipline them in some way. But that's another story.
OhHey Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I feel I am staying on topic here when I say Sweetheartt here is just like the girl that insulted the OP today. So to Sweetheartt, why insult a guy like that? just ignore him, it's better than calling him ugly. How would you feel if a guy you got attracted to laughs and says, "you ugly, woman, no thanks" It's hard for you to realize how that feels, because you are attractive and I doubt anyone would say that to you. Just try to imagine how devastating it is, to a man or a woman...it sucks. For some of those guys it may be their first time asking out a girl and you say that to them..... Think about that and be nicer. A girl who looks like you and is respectful, smart and nice is very hard to resist....but I tellya sister, your attitude stinks and it's unattractive no matter how you look.
Sweetheartt Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 The OP doesn't need you calling him a stupid ass or any of your negative comment up there right now. The poor kid got his butt kicked big time today and comes here for some relief and comfort and a place to spill. Say something that can help him, not make him feel worse and what you said probably did make him feel worse. OMFG u have no idea the kinda **** I go thru w/ guys in the streets & all that! I get leered at by weirdos & guys that just stand there & stare like a nutjob & I gotta deal w/ it some kinda way right? Im not gonna be nice to a pervert just cuz he's interested & I aint. Thats stupid an u know it 1
William Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 If I edit this thread any more, there won't be a thread left. My god people, can't you even try to follow the community guidelines? You left free speech at the door when you agreed to follow the guidelines to participate in this community. Don't want to follow them? Go somewhere else. Seriously. 1
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 OMFG u have no idea the kinda **** I go thru w/ guys in the streets & all that! I get leered at by weirdos & guys that just stand there & stare like a nutjob & I gotta deal w/ it some kinda way right? Im not gonna be nice to a pervert just cuz he's interested & I aint. Thats stupid an u know it I think u deal with it wrong really do. Its wrong to be mad just 'cause guys look at u & wanna talk to u 'cause they might feel attracted & wanna give a go & hope maybe they can get lucky for once & have a great girl. They dont expect the kinds of reactions u give. We dont know that u are upset or tired of us or something how can we u know?
Shaun-Dro Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 I think u deal with it wrong really do. Its wrong to be mad just 'cause guys look at u & wanna talk to u 'cause they might feel attracted & wanna give a go & hope maybe they can get lucky for once & have a great girl. They dont expect the kinds of reactions u give. We dont know that u are upset or tired of us or something how can we u know? I'm not surprised at what happened to you given how a lot of these young women act today in society. However, I'm not condoning it whatsoever. I think the best thing for you to do, OP, is seriously step aside and work on your confidence. Ignore the women for now and look for other stuff to do. You need to stay occupied with things you'll enjoy that won't necessarily include the presence of women you desire. Good luck and I really hope things get better for you, but the only way it can is you have to start from the beginning. Get these so-called beautiful women out your head and leave them alone for now. Work on yourself and you will heed results; with that you'll feel more confident and that will be evident in your future attempts at trying to meet someone. 1
Woggle Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 I must say the women in this thread have really pleasently surprised me. Not at all the responses I was expecting.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 Thanks folks, I see you booted Sweetness out of here, the future ocotomom. WHats a ocotomom? I never heard of that before & it sounds kinda weird. I never wanted things in here to go wild I only wanted people to help out & give me advice on how to go on after getting embarrassed the way I did the other day.
firemanq Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 A nice letter to the owner of the shop, giving time, date, name of offender, any witnesses, if you remember, what happened, letting the owner know you will not be back in his shop so you can be offended again. Signed by your name Address
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