NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Oh man this caused me to stop breathing for about 1 minute or so. It just happened at the deli today when I was getting a sandwich & she was just in front of me right & she was really cute & she was on her cell phone so I waited for her to get off before I started to chat her up right. She looked at me the whole time & when I started to talk she made a eww face & she said you'r so ugly get away from me. She left the line right there! I was on line & I couldn't catch my breath . I never had anyone say something so cruel to me before .
pteromom Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Oh man this caused me to stop breathing for about 1 minute or so. It just happened at the deli today when I was getting a sandwich & she was just in front of me right & she was really cute & she was on her cell phone so I waited for her to get off before I started to chat her up right. She looked at me the whole time & when I started to talk she made a eww face & she said you'r so ugly get away from me. She left the line right there! I was on line & I couldn't catch my breath . I never had anyone say something so cruel to me before . Obviously something mentally OFF about her. I wouldn't take it personally. Who says something like that to someone else? Cute or not, she was a wackadoodle. 7
LittlePrince Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 She has no class. Even if it were still taught, it wouldn't mean everyone would practice it.
dasein Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Sorry you had that happen to you, don't let the bastards carborundum you!
LittlePrince Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Hopefully this will get you more use to extreme examples of rejection since as you know some will be far from polite.
LondonS Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Oh man this caused me to stop breathing for about 1 minute or so. It just happened at the deli today when I was getting a sandwich & she was just in front of me right & she was really cute & she was on her cell phone so I waited for her to get off before I started to chat her up right. She looked at me the whole time & when I started to talk she made a eww face & she said you'r so ugly get away from me. She left the line right there! I was on line & I couldn't catch my breath . I never had anyone say something so cruel to me before . May be some teeny booper crazy ! Ignore
Madman81 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Have you had sex before? Have you had girlfriends before? If so, then you must be at least somewhat attractive. Don't fret about what she said to you. It would appear, however, that this girl has found the perfect thing to say to guys to get them to leave her alone.... if a girl said that to me, I'd probably have a similar reaction.
mesmerized Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I wouldn't worry about it. Obviously she was rude and crazy, who does that? I wouldn't take what people like that said seriously or personally.
Heart Of A Lion Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 (edited) It's mean, hurtful and you pull the rug from under someone's self worth and confidence by doing that. Edited May 10, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Removed quote to inflammatory response that was deleted 5
LittlePrince Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Have you had sex before? Have you had girlfriends before? If so, then you must be at least somewhat attractive. Don't fret about what she said to you. It would appear, however, that this girl has found the perfect thing to say to guys to get them to leave her alone.... if a girl said that to me, I'd probably have a similar reaction. I would have made a horrendously loud eww sound and yell "What happened to your face? What's wrong with it?" then start poking it with my meaty fingers like I was probing it for answers as if I was a proctologist.
persevere Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 The juvenile side of me says you should have told her she was FAT. No matter how she is built, it's the most horrific thing you can say to a woman. She would have been crying all the way home. 2
Necromancer Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 If something like that would happen to me...and she would have some rude face going on to i seriously think i would punch her in the face or call her fat. Depends on the mood, it doesn't matter how ugly the women would be that approached me i would try to reject her as nicely as i could. People like this piss me off!
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2012 Author Posted May 9, 2012 Hopefully this will get you more use to extreme examples of rejection since as you know some will be far from polite. But I was nice to her like am always so it just hurts alot . I'm scared to keep trying 'cause maybe what she said was true. Maybe my face looks a little weird when I talk 'cause she said it when I spoke not before I did.
ThaWholigan Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Oh man this caused me to stop breathing for about 1 minute or so. It just happened at the deli today when I was getting a sandwich & she was just in front of me right & she was really cute & she was on her cell phone so I waited for her to get off before I started to chat her up right. She looked at me the whole time & when I started to talk she made a eww face & she said you'r so ugly get away from me. She left the line right there! I was on line & I couldn't catch my breath . I never had anyone say something so cruel to me before . Very sorry to hear that, bro. Some girls are extremely rude, I wouldn't take it to heart. I know how you feel, I used to be very sensitive like that, although my panic attacks were slightly different and more from sensory overloads. This is going to be hard, but you have to completely disregard what she said to you. She's just one girl, and a bitch at that, so don't let that deter you. If you need any resources to help you, PM me, and I'll send some info over to you to help you. 1
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2012 Author Posted May 9, 2012 Dude that really sucks. Was she fairly young? I think she was around 18 or 19 & I'm 24 so its not that big difference.
Heart Of A Lion Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 (edited) It would appear, however, that this girl has found the perfect thing to say to guys to get them to leave her alone.... if a girl said that to me, I'd probably have a similar reaction. She could also have excused herself and then leave. "I'm sorry, but I have to go." There are better ways to handle things like this. There's no need to be mean, insult or to ignore someone. A little bit of friendliness and consideration goes a long way. It regularly happens that people chat up to me in public, both men and women. I always try to listen to what they have to say and respond in a way that I let them know that I care about what they say, even when the topic is not my kind of thing. Sometimes it's people that are lonely and looking for a connection, at other times it's people who are trying to conquer their social anxiety and again at other times it's women that approach me to start a conversation. There are a lot of lonely people. When I walk in the street I try to look into people's eyes. And despite what you hear on LS about women having all the power and options, I see a lot of loneliness in women's eyes. I've also never met a woman that didn't appreciate it if a man approached her. I've seen even teenage girls stay classy and polite when a 60+ guy tried to chat up to them. Those girls knew the deal, but they stayed polite, kind and considerate no matter what. Edited May 9, 2012 by Heart Of A Lion 5
LittlePrince Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 But I was nice to her like am always so it just hurts alot . I'm scared to keep trying 'cause maybe what she said was true. Maybe my face looks a little weird when I talk 'cause she said it when I spoke not before I did. We all look a little weird. Even a beautiful face if you study it for awhile you'll notice how strange attractiveness is.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2012 Author Posted May 9, 2012 We all look a little weird. Even a beautiful face if you study it for awhile you'll notice how strange attractiveness is. I guess I dont know. Thanx guys for supporting me you'r all very nice on here xcept for sweetheartt I dont know why she act mean & think its so funny or something 'cause its not funny to me or u guys. I told my friend on my block about it but he didnt know what to say about it .
ThaWholigan Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I guess I dont know. Thanx guys for supporting me you'r all very nice on here xcept for sweetheartt I dont know why she act mean & think its so funny or something 'cause its not funny to me or u guys. I told my friend on my block about it but he didnt know what to say about it . Try not to let it get you down . What do you do that makes you happy? Or stuff you are passionate about? I am the same age as you (a little younger) and have had the same problems in the past (still occasionally have them ). What's your situation like?
persevere Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Don't take it too hard, man. A "girl" like that probably likes big, buff abusive players. You'll end up with a nice woman someday. She'll be in utter relationship h*ll, wondering how she got there. She can't go through life treating people like that without a big payback.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted May 9, 2012 Author Posted May 9, 2012 Try not to let it get you down . What do you do that makes you happy? Or stuff you are passionate about? I am the same age as you (a little younger) and have had the same problems in the past (still occasionally have them ). What's your situation like? I play handball & stuff & I like some football. They use me alot for football 'cause I'm kinda heavy & block alot of players so its fun. Anyway I like to go to the movies sometimes. I used to like the lounges but the girls are in there ignoring me so I stop going in there & just try to chat girls up in the streets more or something. I'm trying to not think so much & move on but its really hard when u cant catch a break just 1 time u know.
Cracker Jack Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Yeah, that was pretty childish and ignorant on her part. Don't allow it to bother you or keep you from approach women. I'm sure most men have been insulted by a woman at some point in their lives. You just have to take the punches and continue on. You can do it. 1
ThaWholigan Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I play handball & stuff & I like some football. They use me alot for football 'cause I'm kinda heavy & block alot of players so its fun. Anyway I like to go to the movies sometimes. I used to like the lounges but the girls are in there ignoring me so I stop going in there & just try to chat girls up in the streets more or something. I'm trying to not think so much & move on but its really hard when u cant catch a break just 1 time u know. Seen. Well hope isn't lost. I'm in the same position trust me. And I'm very optimistic about my future, and I want you to be the same. When I have a little more time, I will send you some links that are helping me and links I am going to use at some point.
PhillyDude Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Oh man this caused me to stop breathing for about 1 minute or so. It just happened at the deli today when I was getting a sandwich & she was just in front of me right & she was really cute & she was on her cell phone so I waited for her to get off before I started to chat her up right. She looked at me the whole time & when I started to talk she made a eww face & she said you'r so ugly get away from me. She left the line right there! I was on line & I couldn't catch my breath . I never had anyone say something so cruel to me before . So you let a woman disrespect you in public and said nothing? Are you 8 years old?
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