knightmastr Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 What do they really mean when they say “I should have f***ed him/her” What could she say that could hurt me more? Is this simply an ignorant attempt to deflect blame? I have told her I know she previously did indeed complete her rumination-why try to infer she did not? I know this to be a fact-she has no excuse/explanation for 3 hrs they were together.
Ninja'sHusband Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 What do they really mean when they say “I should have f***ed him/her” What could she say that could hurt me more? Is this simply an ignorant attempt to deflect blame? I have told her I know she previously did indeed complete her rumination-why try to infer she did not? I know this to be a fact-she has no excuse/explanation for 3 hrs they were together. Wow honestly I've never heard that line before. That does sound pretty spiteful. I would ask her why she said that, regardless of whether you can prove it did or did not happen.
wellwhynot Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Years ago, just out of high school my best friend was convinced her boyfriend was cheating on her. (Incorrectly it did turn out) She refused to believe the truth no matter what he said or did, and despite the fact that there was no evidence or real indicators that he was. She was a very jealous person. We came upon him and a girl we knew chatting outside the bike shop one afternoon. She flew into a frenzy and they had a huge argument right there while the girl tried to protest that she was in fact there with her boyfriend who was inside and that it was simply a harmless, hey how's your summer conversation. Later that night they broke up. One of the things he said to her was that. "You've been blaming me for xxxxing everything that moves all year. I should have done it. I'm punished for it every day anyhow." That wasn't a nice thing to say, but he was frustrated and meant it.i If she really is cheating on you than that was a horrible and vile thing to say. If you are going on a hunch and NOTHING else, then it strikes me as something said out of frustration. 1
Author knightmastr Posted May 20, 2012 Author Posted May 20, 2012 She admitted 6 months of EA but denied insurmountable evidence from text messages/phone bill of a PA/ONS
BetrayedH Posted May 20, 2012 Posted May 20, 2012 She admitted 6 months of EA but denied insurmountable evidence from text messages/phone bill of a PA/ONS Maybe she should have said to you instead, "I'm sorry. I really shouldn't have lied to you. It's my fault that you don't believe what I say." Of course, that would require that she has true remorse for what she has done and how it has devastated your world view. As a matter of fact, by virtue of her statement it's clear that the only thing she has remorse over is not sleeping with the OM. Nice.
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