LittlePrince Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 so true.. I happen to know a couple of guys that if you googled them their mugshots from some of their criminal records show up.. How sorry I feel for the the girls they date and don't google them.. of course when they do... dumped. I find too many women into the ex-con thing so it would actually be a plus.
fucpcg Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I suggest you confront him about it in a public setting. Read his reaction carefully. I too would be a little scared if I knew a guy with a past like that. (1) Meet in public, you've got to be kidding me... (2) It's not his past, it's his present. Sexual desires don't come and go. (3) I have an adult profile, do I scare you? You don't have to worry about his reaction, because his reaction will be "I'm gone" when he realizes you are that conservative, and so concerned with his preferences. Have fun with your all vanilla sex life! 1
LittlePrince Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I wonder how she would handle it if the shoe was on the other foot and the guy she was dating confronted her on her sex history.
Almond_Joy Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 If it's not her thing, it's not her thing. I agree that you should ask him about the site, before writing him off, especially if it's from a couple years ago. It may have been something he was curious about but never took action on, or is no longer into, along with it being his sexual preference. You won't know if you don't ask. It's not terribly hard to minimize your internet footprint. That's what profile privacy settings and handles are for......
Chocolat Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I agree that you should ask him about it. Also, how do you know it's him? I use a different handle on each site I'm involved with, but what's to say that there isn't another Chocolat out there (or maybe several Chocolats)? Ditto with people's real names. 1
truth_seeker Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 There are always reasons for everything so you should just ask him instead of creeping into his life without his permission. If the person's information is on the internet for the whole world to see then it's not creeping. I find nothing wrong with looking someone up on Google. People today have a strong tendency to lie and live a double life, especially when it comes to OLD.
Yookie Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I agree that you should ask him about it. Also, how do you know it's him? I use a different handle on each site I'm involved with, but what's to say that there isn't another Chocolat out there (or maybe several Chocolats)? Ditto with people's real names. I was going to say this. How do you know it's really him? Anyone can use the same handle. I just Googled Yookie and there is someone on facebook with this name. Guess what? It's NOT me! LOL:D
insertnamehere Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 All this internet stuff has ruined the dating world. People get crazy about **** before they even have a chance to meet a person. Frankly, the internet has made it easier for people who vacillate in the dating world to just keep being lonely. People let way too much stuff drive them nuts and the internet has only made that worse. 1
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