brokendreamz Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 It's not real life It's not a realistic cross section of society It rarely shows 'Normal' or 'average' people We all know this, so why do we allow ourselves to be swayed by it with regard to what we find attractive and what is normal in a sexual relationship? Don't really know where I'm going with this rant... Just sayin'
Philosoraptor Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 It's all in the mindset of the user. One who puts it in the same area as any science fiction movie will not be swayed. One who watches it and judges others on it needs a reality check. I expect women to look like brushed to perfection models as often as I expect people to start shooting lasers out of their eyes or knocking down buildings with their mind.
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 (edited) I'm not even sure what you're saying? There are millions of different porn stars & most, are very average looking people(with the exception of the ones with plastic surgery) doing normal sexual activities. Edited May 9, 2012 by dsw31
marqueemoon4 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I'm not even sure what you're saying? There are millions of different porn stars & most, are very average looking people(with the exception of the ones with plastic surgery) doing normal sexual activities. we're obviously watching different p0rn 3
marqueemoon4 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Please elaborate on what's so unrealistic? hahah.. I don't think I can here.. suffice to say most of the porn I've come across is extremely unrealistic. 2
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 (edited) hahah.. I don't think I can here.. suffice to say most of the porn I've come across is extremely unrealistic. Like what?? The only thing I can think of that's REALLY extreme is... snuff (and maybe furries but, that's just a little odd-doesn't mean people don't do it. It's usually done by very insecure people) Edited May 9, 2012 by dsw31
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I believe there has been significant research that strongly indicates, if not proves, that watching a lot of porn can be addictive and can actually alter some neural pathways in the brain. Sex and what we respond to sexually is coming from a very primal place and it's not always controllable by our intellect, like we are able to realize that we can't kill people with our lazar eye beams. I mean, we will "realize" that it's fake, but our responses will still happen and sometimes they carry over into our real life interactions (or lack thereof) with live people. I'm not "against" porn. At all. I think people should be aware of exactly what it is and that it might be impacting their lives in ways they are not conscious of. 3
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I believe there has been significant research that strongly indicates, if not proves, that watching a lot of porn can be addictive and can actually alter some neural pathways in the brain. Sex and what we respond to sexually is coming from a very primal place and it's not always controllable by our intellect, like we are able to realize that we can't kill people with our lazar eye beams. I mean, we will "realize" that it's fake, but our responses will still happen and sometimes they carry over into our real life interactions (or lack thereof) with live people. I'm not "against" porn. At all. I think people should be aware of exactly what it is and that it might be impacting their lives in ways they are not conscious of. Back to the original topic.. The truth is porn is very realistic.Not fake! Some things about it may make you insecure, somethings about it may not turn you on. The fact is-all types of porn are realistic because someone out there is turned on by it,someone out there performs those very acts you see.
marqueemoon4 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Back to the original topic.. The truth is porn is very realistic.Not fake! Some things about it may make you insecure, somethings about it may not turn you on. The fact is-all types of porn are realistic because someone out there is turned on by it,someone out there performs those very acts you see. so, in your opinion.. and I'll just use this as an example, its common practice for one woman to blow 20 dudes in one sitting? its realistic that most women you come across can deep throat a 12" rod? and i don't watch much porn.. just a free site I check every now and again, but I will say watching these women do all kinds of filthy stuff made me wonder why my exW was so tame in bed. ie, I subconsciously starting thinking thats the way most women are, and they simply aren't. 2
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 so, in your opinion.. and I'll just use this as an example, its common practice for one woman to blow 20 dudes in one sitting? its realistic that most women you come across can deep throat a 12" rod? and i don't watch much porn.. just a free site I check every now and again, but I will say watching these women do all kinds of filthy stuff made me wonder why my exW was so tame in bed. ie, I subconsciously starting thinking thats the way most women are, and they simply aren't. I never said it's "common practice" but it definitely happens in real life.
marqueemoon4 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I never said it's "common practice" but it definitely happens in real life. we gotta hang out sometime lol 1
CarrieT Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 The truth is porn is very realistic. Not fake! There is significant amount of action in porn that is fake and/or exaggerated: The length of time women can take it - there are a lot of cuts and breaks between supposedly long amounts of penetration.The flawlessness of women's bodies - they DO wear body make-up and many have had significant plastic surgery.Women's pleasure - it is ACTING, after all.Back to the length of time a woman can take it - lots and lots of lube is used.Length of time a man can "act" - they will often photograph the cum shot early on in a shoot so that when a man starts the penetration scenes, he has had a recent orgasm and can perform longer. Also, many of the male actors use Viagra for prolonged orgasms and the cum shots are often faked (technology is an amazing thing).Angles - many angles that look good being photographed are actually not pleasurable to either the man or the woman; they are done for the view only. Also, because of the use of different cameras, you are often seeing what looks like different angles but it is also the same scene from different camera angles. 1
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Ha ha Marqueemoon4! I never said I participate in gangbangs! I just know some people do & some people are turned on by it.Granted-20 guys is a lot but, this kind of porn is geared towards that kind of fetish.
marqueemoon4 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Ha ha Marqueemoon4! I never said I participate in gangbangs! I just know some people do & some people are turned on by it.Granted-20 guys is a lot but, this kind of porn is geared towards that kind of fetish. no I didn't think you did.. was just saying
worldgonewrong Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Still scratching my head as to why this thread ended up in the 'Coping' section, haha! 3
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Still scratching my head as to why this thread ended up in the 'Coping' section, haha! Because anyone who has to "cope" with porn is insecure about it.
marqueemoon4 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 So what were you saying?...You have a 12' pipe? Lol wouldn't you like to know
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 wouldn't you like to know I already know it's big. People's turns on are based on psychology.You wanna see the girls' in those pornos reaction to it(big schlong porn).You wanna know how much your own big one can do.
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Which reminds me... I once had 1 date with a guy who was totally obsessed with comic books. I knew if I asked him if those girls turned him on,he would say yes.Well I did ask...and they did.He was super shy & insecure.I think him liking comics let him escape his own reality & pretend to be a super hero (aka powerful) I obviously never accepted a 2nd date but, it goes to show you different things turn different people on & it's all based on psychology
123321 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 My GF says she watches it to get ideas, seems to be true.
marqueemoon4 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I already know it's big. People's turns on are based on psychology.You wanna see the girls' in those pornos reaction to it(big schlong porn).You wanna know how much your own big one can do. I know exactly what it can do
dsw31 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 My GF says she watches it to get ideas, seems to be true. Well I'm sure that's a logical excuse but, there's always something specific she is turned on by.I bet I can guess her personality based on what she's into... Care to share? I could write a book about the psychology behind fetishes.
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