KidMan Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 ok im 17 and i broke up with my girlfriend who i was with for seven months and i loved her so much she was my first love and i was hers. we broke up 2 days ago because i sent her a jealous text message and turned off my phone and i really hurt her and my jealously led to talking and we came to the conclusion of breaking up , when we were talking we were trying to find solutions but the only solution we came to was breaking up we really didnt discuss anything else it was emotional but we had no arguments and it was a civil healthy talk and we still loved each other the last thing i said to her was goodbye and i love you and she said it back and i left , we are both equally upset and yesterday i was in school and it was like we were strangers and its very difficult . its been two days and yesterday i was so emtional i realised id made an error and should of tried harder to prevent us from breaking up and i think we made a mistake and i so badly wanted to call her or text her and say something like i miss you or hey can we talk i know she loves me and shes finding it equally as hard but the no contact rule stupid thing is too hard for me , i just want to know am i in denial and giving myslef false hope i genuinely believe she wants to get back as well we havent spoken since the break up but it just seems to me like it wasnt a break up like others since we both are still in love , i want to just call her and ask her hows shes feeling and say i miss you and i think we made a big mistake the other day and ive realised just how much i love you , but im afraid in case i lose her but i just need her to tell me no for me to really take this break up seriously please somebody help what should i do ?
ScienceGal Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 If you're certain you want to be with her, then call her and tell her how you feel. What do you have to lose?
hotchilenadd67 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I can see how you are really going through it over your break up. I think since its only been two days, you should call her and tell her how you feel. But just in case, be ready if she doesn't feel the same. Talk about the reasons you broke up and if both are willing to work it out, then start a NEW RELATIONSHIP with her and leave the old one behind. Good luck to you in finding happiness or at least peace.
Tree_Salmon Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 You're too young to be taking girls back. If you want to be better prepared for the real love of your life in the future you should just move on to the next relationship. Enjoy being young. This s*&^ will be going on for the next 40 years, don't jump into it so early. Enjoy life. You'll fall in love again. Better love
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