Sugarkane Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I remember somewhere that guys would wait for their dream girl. Even though personally Jessica is over rated and a mediocre actress and engaged to a complete douche. So why am I being told that waiting is dumb and not worth it? Yet apparently an over rated actress is?
gibson Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I remember somewhere that guys would wait for their dream girl. Even though personally Jessica is over rated and a mediocre actress and engaged to a complete douche. So why am I being told that waiting is dumb and not worth it? Yet apparently an over rated actress is? It's a good thing that whoever waited and is engaged to Jessica isn't just with her for her looks and her acting. Is that all you look for in a life partner?
FrustratedStandards Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Because there aren't a lot of hot women like her, therefore she is worth waiting for. If ever other girl was as good looking as her (even though in my eyes she is only just cute) then men wouldn't go to desperate lengths as to wait, there would be another one along in no time.
dasein Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I've never known a man who was waiting around for some ideal like a celebrity, and certainly haven't/wouldn't myself.
somedude81 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I've never known a man who was waiting around for some ideal like a celebrity, and certainly haven't/wouldn't myself. It's certainly not something that an adult male would do. Though I know several early 20's women who are waiting for their ideal celeb or a man who can match him.
LittlePrince Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 It's certainly not something that an adult male would do. Though I know several early 20's women who are waiting for their ideal celeb or a man who can match him. That's not all women but there is a decent sized chunk of women like that. They end up being like the girls on Sex in the City except with no happy ending and alone forever.
somedude81 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 That's not all women but there is a decent sized chunk of women like that. They end up being like the girls on Sex in the City except with no happy ending and alone forever. Serves them right too.
LZ2000 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I would wait for the woman who would love me for who i am to enter into my life.
ascendotum Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 That's not all women but there is a decent sized chunk of women like that. They end up being like the girls on Sex in the City except with no happy ending and alone forever. I know a few like that, and there was no happy ending (while maybe not quite like they hoped for), but like the satc women they had fun in the meantime, and had their dream guys for a little while. Guys are not hung up on the one. There are 1000s of women in any large city that would make great gfs for most guys...and vice versa. I really don't think many guys wait for their dream girl. More like they will get on with life & hopfully love women that has some of the characteristics of their dream girl or if they come across their dream girl and she amazingly is single, then some will make the most of the opportunity to start a new relationship if they can snag her. When you are young and there's plenty of single girls and you are out partying/ clubbing/networking all the time and you are meeting many new girls each week and you are reasonably good looking guy, then you could hold out for your ideal girl. One of my friends did, he's a good looking guy and was fussy and spent many months single between girls and knocked back quite a few women who flirted with him (even when it came to ons), that most of the others in our group would have loved to have got with. If you actually knew a girl that was perfect for you, and she was in a relationship, I think its a little crazy to wait in the wings hoping she will breakup with her bf. Keep the doors of communication open and your ear to the ground for any trouble in paradise, but you need to make the most of any other opportunities to get with great girls that cross your path in the meantime.
Radu Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 (edited) I remember somewhere that guys would wait for their dream girl. Even though personally Jessica is over rated and a mediocre actress and engaged to a complete douche. So why am I being told that waiting is dumb and not worth it? Yet apparently an over rated actress is? You mean the actress Jessica Biel or someone equally attractive ? Tbh, i wouldn't. I think it's a bad ideea to hold out for your 'perfect' person based on a huge laundry list of requirements. You will end up in your 5th decade of your life wondering ... 'wtf, where did my life go'. I mean sure, someone like that is attractive and all that, but that's a projected image ... the one you are attracted to. You might as well go the full mile and wank off to her pictures, it's much faster too. I could be blind about my own gender here, but i've been warned about western girls who hold out and hold out and hold out, shopping for men all their lives like they are collecting shoes. Edited May 9, 2012 by Radu
january2011 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Why are you comparing your life to Jessica Biel's? That way lies madness. 1
ThaWholigan Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Who told you that waiting was dumb? I'd advise you to just make your interest known if you wish. And no, we don't sit around waiting for Jessica Biel (or whichever female celebrity man finds attractive).
mesmerized Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Some do...I have a male friend far less than perfect (who *thinks* he is way too handsome) that says he would not settle with anything less than absolute perfection. I told him good luck.
ThaWholigan Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Some do...I have a male friend far less than perfect (who *thinks* he is way too handsome) that says he would not settle with anything less than absolute perfection. I told him good luck. . I know guys and girls like that. Sometimes they actually do find their "perfect" partner......it usually doesn't last
mesmerized Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 . I know guys and girls like that. Sometimes they actually do find their "perfect" partner......it usually doesn't last Yeah he might get lucky. He also thinks girls don't like him because he is too handsome and girls don't like good looking guys
ThaWholigan Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Yeah he might get lucky. He also thinks girls don't like him because he is too handsome and girls don't like good looking guys That must be my problem . I find that guys are more afraid of good looking girls than the other way around. The hottest women are the ones that don't get moved to. 1
pteromom Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 The thing about waiting for some fantasy ideal is that you never know what someone is really like until you date them. So you spend years waiting for that one special hot girl and finally get her - then what? What if she ends up being nuts, or horrible in bed, or a cheater? The best strategy is to go on dates with as many people as possible. Give anyone who you find the least bit attractive a shot. Most of them will not be right for you, but you may just find someone really cool... 1
mesmerized Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 That must be my problem . I find that guys are more afraid of good looking girls than the other way around. The hottest women are the ones that don't get moved to. I think it goes both ways. But considering most good looking guys I know have it pretty easy, I call BS on his theory.
mesmerized Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I'd wait for Jessica Alba perhaps... I'd wait for her too.
zengirl Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I'm confused. By waiting do you mean waiting till marriage for sex? Biel is old and has been in Maxim, so that sounds odd to me. How exactly did her fiance 'wait' for her? Am I missing something?
FrustratedStandards Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 . I know guys and girls like that. Sometimes they actually do find their "perfect" partner......it usually doesn't last That's probably because they realize that this "perfect" mate is actually human....ahahah
Anela Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I'm confused. By waiting do you mean waiting till marriage for sex? Biel is old and has been in Maxim, so that sounds odd to me. How exactly did her fiance 'wait' for her? Am I missing something? Old? She's younger than me. But I think they're wondering if they would refrain from even trying to date anyone else, thinking that their Jessica Biel will come along one day. I don't know if they're talking about waiting for 'the one' or just not dating anyone that wouldn't measure up in their eyes.
somedude81 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Old? She's younger than me. But I think they're wondering if they would refrain from even trying to date anyone else, thinking that their Jessica Biel will come along one day. I don't know if they're talking about waiting for 'the one' or just not dating anyone that wouldn't measure up in their eyes. I think that's what she is talking about. And what I find ironic, is that I have never met a guy who was doing that, but I have met several early 20's women who were. One wanted somebody that was in some Euro-rock band, another wanted some pretty boy anime character, and another was waiting for Solid Snake. 1
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