mattr89 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 After a week of no cantact and 2 weeks since the break... My ex drove by me and saw me running. She texted me saying "did i see you running with your ta tas out or was that just my imagination :)" I dont know if i should be normal with her and respond in a humorous manner like i normally would or just ignore it. I do want her in my life but i dont know if now is the time. Any input would help
Gulf-Delta Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 After a week of no cantact and 2 weeks since the break... My ex drove by me and saw me running. She texted me saying "did i see you running with your ta tas out or was that just my imagination :)" I dont know if i should be normal with her and respond in a humorous manner like i normally would or just ignore it. I do want her in my life but i dont know if now is the time. Any input would help Are YOU okay with talking to her? What emotions come up when you heard from her?
Mr Scorpio Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 I would need to know more about the breakup -- who initiated it and why -- to give you a thorough answer. Therefore, I'll give you a simple one: ignore it.
TaraMaiden Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 I'll give you a simple one: ignore it. I'll just stick with that bit....
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 After a week of no cantact and 2 weeks since the break... My ex drove by me and saw me running. She texted me saying "did i see you running with your ta tas out or was that just my imagination :)" I dont know if i should be normal with her and respond in a humorous manner like i normally would or just ignore it. I do want her in my life but i dont know if now is the time. Any input would help love how they act all cute after the breakup. Ignore. and also, ignore, ignore and...ignore.
Author mattr89 Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 Well we have been off and on for a few months now and she slowly started detaching herself from me. I found out she lied to me about hanging out with a guy we know so i ended it with her. Shortly after i tried to reconcile with her and didnt budge, just told me to move on cause so was she. So I stopped talking to her till that those texts... Well after that i bumped into her at work and she told me she had an interest in that guy and that she was ready for a boyfriend. I told her to stop contacting me for any reason. I know her and this wont be the last i hear from here. I love her and all but i made mistakes that drove her away and to this new guy. I dont know what to think...
Author mattr89 Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 haha "ta tas" was her way of saying "my chest" cause i was running with my shirt off
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 11, 2012 Posted May 11, 2012 does off and on again really count as a real relationship? just wondering.
Author mattr89 Posted May 11, 2012 Author Posted May 11, 2012 no absolutely not. Thats why we ended it. I just know her too well and although she says she is done, she will still contact me at some point.
Mr Scorpio Posted May 12, 2012 Posted May 12, 2012 And when she does contact you, you will allow her words to simply pass around you. They will have no effect on you. Because of this, she will become distraught, because her power over you will have ended. 1
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