Ross MwcFan Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Maybe if some women would've given him a chance he wouldn't have felt the need to turn to anime women.
Els Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 [sarcasm]I feel like video game men are more attractive than real men.[/sarcasm] Garcia Hotspur ...yup! Dante ...wonder if there are any hardcore DMC fans here that'll hate me? Chris Redfield Oh, I'm sure there are more out there but I might give off the vibe that I'm sad. What a shame these men aren't real. I suppose it's normal. There are like these little awards amongst gamers for sexiest female protagonist. But these are men we're talking about. I see your Dante and Garcia, and put to you King of Fighters Wallpaper: Yagami Iori - Minitokyo and Final-Fantasy
Feelsgoodman Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 (edited) Well, that's inaccurate. I'm obsessed with a culture that seems increasingly impersonal and seeped in fantasy to the point where real people avoid reality for fantasy. I'm obsessed with how men seem more prone to choose fantasy over reality because fantasy women are a lot easier to deal with real women (shocker I know right). I am obsessed with pointing out how things like porn have changed relationships, culture and what that means for hte future of people in real life. I mean seriously, when you start hearing about guys that are more attracted to cartoons...something is completely wrong there. And I think you know that too. You just aren't brave enough to say it. I think the OP sounds like a decent guy. He knows something is off in how he sees things. He needs to put down the fantasy and learn how to deal with real women. People (both men and women) become withdrawn from reality for a reason. Technology is not the cause; it's simply a tool. Over the past 50-60 years, "the powers that be" have been staging a massive social engineering experiment that has transformed our society into something that is completely at odds with intrinsic human nature. People are withdrawing from reality because they don't feel themselves a part of this new world order. Edited May 13, 2012 by Feelsgoodman
PlumPrincess Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 Maybe if some women would've given him a chance he wouldn't have felt the need to turn to anime women. Give those women who are unfortunate with their weight and looks a chance first.
KR10N Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 I see your Dante and Garcia, and put to you King of Fighters Wallpaper: Yagami Iori - Minitokyo and Final-Fantasy Nathan Drake and Soap MacTavis?
Ross MwcFan Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Give those women who are unfortunate with their weight and looks a chance first. I do, but they're never interested in me.
ThaWholigan Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Give those women who are unfortunate with their weight and looks a chance first. This is a myth. A lot of the time, these girls will reject you too . 2
Ross MwcFan Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 This is a myth. A lot of the time, these girls will reject you too . One of those girls when rejecting me even called me really ugly once. She was overweight, her face was definatley below average, and I think she had a lot of spots too. Then she ended up going for one of my friends and French kissed him.
ThaWholigan Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 One of those girls when rejecting me even called me really ugly once. She was overweight, her face was definatley below average, and I think she had a lot of spots too. Then she ended up going for one of my friends and French kissed him. Go for girls you're attracted to Ross. In my experience, the truly most beautiful girls were actually also the nicest. As were the girls who were not lookers at all. The girls inbetween, from the average, to verging on beautiful, were the most arrogant in my experiences. I used to feel sad for those really beautiful girls, because nobody dated them. They were the ones who actually dated real jerks because they were the only ones who would approach them. This is where a girl approaching would have been to her benefit. Every other girl dated easily. This has just been my experience though.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Go for girls you're attracted to Ross. In my experience, the truly most beautiful girls were actually also the nicest. As were the girls who were not lookers at all. The girls inbetween, from the average, to verging on beautiful, were the most arrogant in my experiences. I used to feel sad for those really beautiful girls, because nobody dated them. They were the ones who actually dated real jerks because they were the only ones who would approach them. This is where a girl approaching would have been to her benefit. Every other girl dated easily. This has just been my experience though. I always do. The weird thing is though is that I did actually find that girl attractive, and I find plenty of other below average chubby women to be very attractive too.
Els Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Maybe if some women would've given him a chance he wouldn't have felt the need to turn to anime women. Not possible to give someone a chance when he isn't even trying. It's like trying to pass a student when he doesn't even show up for his test. Not gonna happen. Nathan Drake and Soap MacTavis? Arthas Menethil and Jim Raynor!
Author Necris Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 This is a myth. A lot of the time, these girls will reject you too . This is true, just a few days ago I met this one woman who was overweight, I wasn't trying to ask her out but just be friendly and then all of sudden she had an attitude like I was trying to do something. As for people saying I don't even give myself a chance, actually I do force myself to go out and try to meet women I'm just laughably bad at it or unusually unattractive whatever the reason women do not find me attractive at all. I haven't even touched(no I'm not talking about sex but just simple things like a hug or handshake) a woman in I don't know how long.
Els Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Give us a sample of your friendly conversation with the woman a few days back? 1
Author Necris Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 Give us a sample of your friendly conversation with the woman a few days back? I can't remember exactly what was said since I didn't consider it important enough to remember but there was no yelling or drama like that, I didn't know her and there could have been a myriad of reasons why she acted so coldly. Basically I just tried to spark a short friendly conversation since we happened to be next to each other at the time and she started showing an obvious attitude of "don't talk to me" I can catch a hint.
Els Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Well, seems to me like you're taking the perceived slight from her pretty darn seriously if this thread is any indication. If we don't know the specifics, we can't really help you, can we?
Author Necris Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 Well, seems to me like you're taking the perceived slight from her pretty darn seriously if this thread is any indication. If we don't know the specifics, we can't really help you, can we? I didn't really care, as for the specifics I can't remember since again I didn't really care I felt a more "oh well" response. As for the slight it was quite obvious she really didn't want to talk to me its hard to describe but you just know, I guess a better example would be this woman who I was riding the elevator with I didn't try to talk to her or anything instead I was busy listening to my headphones but when her stop came for whatever reason she decided to be rude enough to put her hand almost in my face as she was walking out (maybe I looked like I was going to rape her and that was going to stop me or something:lmao:) I don't know her nor know why she was being so rude but oh well. Anyway these aren't actual rejections since I wasn't actually trying to approach just people not being particularly friendly.
WonderKid Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 I didn't really care, as for the specifics I can't remember since again I didn't really care I felt a more "oh well" response. As for the slight it was quite obvious she really didn't want to talk to me its hard to describe but you just know, I guess a better example would be this woman who I was riding the elevator with I didn't try to talk to her or anything instead I was busy listening to my headphones but when her stop came for whatever reason she decided to be rude enough to put her hand almost in my face as she was walking out (maybe I looked like I was going to rape her and that was going to stop me or something:lmao:) I don't know her nor know why she was being so rude but oh well. Anyway these aren't actual rejections since I wasn't actually trying to approach just people not being particularly friendly. ^^^ Tough one dude! Geez! Remind me not to stop whatever city you live in. Lol
Author Necris Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 ^^^ Tough one dude! Geez! Remind me not to stop whatever city you live in. Lol Its not that bad besides if you are me you get used to it.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 Sounds like where I used to live. A LOT of people seemed to have an attitude and were rude down there, not just teenagers, but adults too, even so called 'respectable' people, like dentists and doctors and whatever. Needless to say, all I ever got was critisim and put downs from people, it was unbelievably rare that I was ever complimented. And this was where I grew up, where I had spent the majority of my life. People who haven't grown up in these sorts of areas, and grew up somewhere where lots of people are just normal, friendly, and nice (which seems to be most places) are really lucky.
Author Necris Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 Sounds like where I used to live. A LOT of people seemed to have an attitude and were rude down there, not just teenagers, but adults too, even so called 'respectable' people, like dentists and doctors and whatever. Needless to say, all I ever got was critisim and put downs from people, it was unbelievably rare that I was ever complimented. People who haven't grown up in these sorts of areas, and grew up somewhere where lots of people are just normal, friendly, and nice (which seems to be most places) are really lucky. In my personal experience friendly people are rare and women aren't typically friendly or approachable to me thats just normal and its been like that my entire life.
WhiteChocolate Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 In my personal experience friendly people are rare and women aren't typically friendly or approachable to me thats just normal and its been like that my entire life. In my experience, sometimes the grouchiest-looking person lights up and turns out to be extremely nice when you start talking to them. It always comes as an unexpected pleasant surprise to me. And I find friendly people everywhere. Maybe it's just Texans. 1
Author Necris Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 In my experience, sometimes the grouchiest-looking person lights up and turns out to be extremely nice when you start talking to them. It always comes as an unexpected pleasant surprise to me. And I find friendly people everywhere. Maybe it's just Texans. You definitely have different experiences than I do.
Author Necris Posted May 15, 2012 Author Posted May 15, 2012 So I guess to sum it up I feel more attracted and relate more (its sad but true I relate to drawings more than actual human beings) to anime/manga girls probably because I feel that a relationship with a real woman is almost just as unattainable, real women in my personal experience also feel very distant and typically not very friendly (in my life experiences people in general aren't very nice or friendly at all so this isn't anything new). I've tried talking and interacting with them but that seems to be getting me nowhere fast. Some people have suggested getting some skills and being more confident but how does that happen? Even faking up some confidence doesn't work anyway.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 15, 2012 Posted May 15, 2012 In my personal experience friendly people are rare and women aren't typically friendly or approachable to me thats just normal and its been like that my entire life. What city do you live in? I used to live in Manchester, which is in the UK. And the bizarre thing is, is that Manchester is supposed to be the friendliest place in the UK.
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