ms.love Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 Hi all, Basically I have gotten to know this man over the past 6 months but only recently have we began to talk more and actually hang out. Before this, it was all work related and now we have both left. There has always been an initial attraction from my part anyway but I don't know about him and that is my problem, I can't tell if he likes me or not. We both finished and on our last him, another guy in the office and myself went out for the night. The guy introduced me to some of his close relatives and they already seemed to know who I was and I got along with them like a house on fire. We ended up all going out on a sort of pub crawl, now I noticed he was flirting with me a lot and some examples of this were: He texts me back immediately. Gives good eye contact and listens to everything I said like his life depended on it. Asks all sorts of questions about me. Bought me drinks and would not let me buy any, even his relatives were buying me drinks. I met some of his closest relatives. He leans in when he talks. If I stopped talking during a conversation he was keeping that conversation going. He was looking at me from the corner of his eye to see if I was laughing at his jokes. Always says my name during conversation or telling people we met during the night about me. He had me stay in his relatives house as we stayed out late, I stayed on the couch and him on the other. I had breakfast/lunch with his close family cousin guys and gals and boyfriends of them the next day. He was telling me all sorts of family stories for no reason. He gave me a pretty amazing hug when I left as I was hungover but we had planned to go walk his dog. The next day he was asking me about a band I was in when I was young and asked me to send him the songs. Are these all good signs? My biggest problem was he never made a move and the other guy whom he is friends with over the past few months that came too was flirting with me and I think he is possibly sticking to the "bro code". I have talked to this guy more than the other co-worker! Should I wait for something to happen? Does he just see me as a friend? Or should I ask him out? Any advice appreciated, Ms.Love
dasein Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Yes, IMO you should ask him out if you think it's possible that he is holding back due to the other guy's interest in you. Good luck.
sid3 Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Yes they are good signs. Personally I don't think you should wait and see what happens. I think you should go for what you want. Trust your intuition. You should be able to drop enough subtle hints that you want him to take you out. If he's interested in you he is already looking for the signs.
Author ms.love Posted May 9, 2012 Author Posted May 9, 2012 Yeah what are you waiting for! I guess I always thought if a man wanted you he would ask! I wasn't sure if he liked me till that night but still part me thinks there is no way he could like me for some reason or another! I also found out he had met someone a few weeks ago but in his words "There is no spark there" I am so confused
rob_h Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I guess I always thought if a man wanted you he would ask! I wasn't sure if he liked me till that night but still part me thinks there is no way he could like me for some reason or another! I also found out he had met someone a few weeks ago but in his words "There is no spark there" I am so confused Hit us up when you make some progress with this; its my situation EXACTLY too! xx
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