xosam02ox Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 Guys, how often do you text girls you have an interest in? My crush texted me the other night for an hour. Sometimes he'll text me really random things too... to get a convo started maybe? He responds immediately to my texts and like I said, seems to text me quite often. We don't hang out, we are co-workers and recently started talking/texting a lot. PLayfully flirting I'd say... so he likes me right? so why won't he make a move?
NeverDated Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 My boyfriend texted me a lot while he was pursuing. Once we got truly serious and settled into what promises to be a very LTR, it stopped almost completely. He talks to me when he comes home.
justagirrl Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 guys suck at texting, and suck in general lol. but! sounds like he may be interested, lots of guys wait a while to make a move to see how you will react and if you'll even step up to the plate...but don't! wait for him to make a move and if he doesn't make a move soon then he's just a puss ;p
mtber75 Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 I'll text but not that much as not to scare the girl away.
Author xosam02ox Posted May 8, 2012 Author Posted May 8, 2012 we have known eachother for a few years now, but have only recently become closer.. so it;s not like he is a stranger. he isn't scaring me off, i know him and have a big crush on him!
TheFinalWord Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 Guys, how often do you text girls you have an interest in? My crush texted me the other night for an hour. Sometimes he'll text me really random things too... to get a convo started maybe? He responds immediately to my texts and like I said, seems to text me quite often. We don't hang out, we are co-workers and recently started talking/texting a lot. PLayfully flirting I'd say... so he likes me right? so why won't he make a move? I only do it if the girl prefers it. I'd rather talk on the phone; especially at the beginning. People put way too much interpretation into text messages. "He just stopped" -- he got busy "She'll go days without" -- she probably texts non-stop and just forgot On the phone there is no ambiguity. Plus it's for a set time as opposed to all day text conversations (annoys most guys)
NateC Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I tend to text a lot...sometimes I initiate, other times I don't. Yeah, phone calls do work and are preferred, but text messages are unique because they can easily be spanned across an entire day.
dasein Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I only text after a relationship is in place or if I get weak and want to start hypnotizing her to do my bidding.
thatone Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 My boyfriend texted me a lot while he was pursuing. Once we got truly serious and settled into what promises to be a very LTR, it stopped almost completely. He talks to me when he comes home. ding ding, winner. that's my MO.
LittlePrince Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I'll text but not that much as not to scare the girl away. You can't scare a girl away who is actually interested in you.
Author xosam02ox Posted May 9, 2012 Author Posted May 9, 2012 interesting. I think since he texts me a lot that he is interested. By the way we are in our early 20s.
DuchessKaye Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I know a guy. He does text 6-10 times a day... But that doesn't justify his interest level to me... As to your guy. If he won't make a move, then don't even bother about him. Maybe he is just fond of texting?
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