justagirrl Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 Hi LS, Haven't been on here in a while, but I was hoping I could find some helpful support and advice. I've been seeing this guy since we met in September. Back in february we discussed the "reason" why we're not in a committed relationship right now... He was entered into the 2012 NFL draft and his reason was that he could be drafted anywhere so for now let's just see how things go. (I bought it) He lives about 40 minutes from me, which to me is nothing, but that also played into his reasoning. When we first started seeing each other, he went to college 5 minutes away from where I live so we were able to see each other all the time. I don't think it's an issue but I guess he feels like since it would be more difficult to see each other, he wouldn't wanna have to go thru something that would potentially cause us to "break up" and ruin our relationship even as friends. So...he ended up getting drafted to the Giants, so he got to stay home!! Which was a big concern of his, and is super close to me, maybe 30 minutes and he will be living in a hotel by the stadium for a while. I'm just trying to figure out what's going thru his head, and idk if i should even bring that up because he's getting so much attention from everyone about his recent accomplishment. He hasn't been texting me as much since the big day, and I'm trying to tell myself it's because of all the attention and he's just dealing with that. But I'm seeing on twitter it seems like he's becoming really friendly with his stretch therapist. He didn't answer my text the other day, and he always does...and then i saw on HER twitter she's posting tweets saying "Getting this workout in, @_______ (his twitter name) is nowhere to be found" "I'm so lonely @_________ (his twitter name again)" [with a picture of the empty gym] and then later in the night tweets like: "M.I.A." "In a cuddly mood #whereAREyou" "My bed is so comfy tonight #ONEthingMISSING" I don't know what this means, but it sort of makes sense since he kinda was M.I.A. and not even answering me........but I feel like this means they're talking or maybe even seeing each other. Today he tweeted a picture at the gym of his foot standing next to her sneaker saying "so small and colorful" I'm really upset and I hope I'm not over analyzing this, but I'm so confused. I texted him that day I guess he wasn't answering anyone and he never answered it I just said Hey Should I text him and see what's up? I should probably just drop it and forget him, but I really like him a lot
baguette Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 I'm guessing his life is probably going to change significantly now that he's on an NFL team.. and he'll probably be traveling a lot and meeting a lot of different people. I know you don't want to hear this but, I would just cut your losses and be ready emotionally to move on. Doesn't mean you still can't date for now though. It sucks, but I hope it works out.
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