KidMan Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 We just broke up last night i went to her house , me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday we were going out fo 7 months and i loved her very much , the breakup was very intense but there was no fighting or arguing just a healthy conversation and we came to a conclusion but we were both really suprised i think we were both crying and very upset when i left and we even said i love you to each other and im distraught because i believe i made a mistake the brak up wasnt over something really big but a collection of things and instances most of all jealousy on my behalf and i just want her back its been about twenty four hours and weve went to school today and didnt speak which was extremely tough i know everyone is going to say the usual cliches and say youll get over her but i love her and i believe its true love and we both deep down even after this are crazy in love should i contact her or leave it , im thinking of writing a letter with my thoughts and apoligies and asking her to take me back and handing it to her tomorrow but im afraid to come off like a lunatic and shes just not going to even contemplate taking me back , waiting is really tough and i dont know if i can wait a week to say something what should i do please?
january2011 Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 It's 'normal' to feel that you want her back when you're still so close to the breakup. However, what are you are going to do about the issues that caused the breakup? What are you going to do about your jealousy? How are you going to ensure that it's going to work out if you do get back together? With some time and space, unclouded by the fog of emotions, perhaps you can look at the issues with a clearer perspective. It would be terrible and unfair to get back together only to break up again over the same issues.
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