SpideyReign Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 alrite a dont really know whats goin on with my ex we broke up or should i say she dumped me in december saying that she didnt think she loved me any more. a suspected she had met some one else which she denied anyways fast forward to last night. a started getting texts off a number i dint know but they knew me by name so not cool in the end they revealed themselves and from what av heard its my ex's new bf. anyways he basically goes on to say he is now f**king my ex has been for 11months and that he's sick of hearing about me and i should move on...quite a charmer am sure you'll agree. so yeah that made me feel sick cos i was always gonna try to get her back but not anymore but what i dont get is in the past like 3months av only sent 2 texts to my ex nothing serious 1 was about her things still being at mine and the other was a random joke so i dont get how he's sick of me cos ive done nothing a just needed to vent here so sorry about the wall of text my grammer and what not arent the best.
Philosoraptor Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 Sounds like a winner. If you've truly not been bothering her then she or her friends are either speaking of you, or lying about contact. He is likely very intimidated abotu her past and wants to make sure you don't make contact. I'm sure somewhere in there he knows she isn't in the right place to be in another relationship and likely has heard the phrase "If they'll cheat with you they'll cheat on you". You came out the big winner here. Continue to work on yourself and move on. While they are still in their drama filled relationship you will have the chance to go out there and get closer to your happy ever after. 1
Author SpideyReign Posted May 8, 2012 Author Posted May 8, 2012 It's proper rocked me. A spoke to ny ex after a got that delightful text and point blank denier then started saying it was none of my business which it wasn't until her new bf decided to rub it all in ny face but yet she still wouldn't admit anything a said its just not a nice thing to do considering we were together for 7 years and she live with ne for 5 and a half and this is how she does me pretty uncool.she just kept ting she didn't know who's the number was aand there was nothing she could do but a told her he had said who he is and what's goin on so its got nothing to do with the number and she just went defensive and said she couldn't talk to me anymore and hung up on me. So here I am a haven't had anymore texts so am guessing she had words its gotta make her start to question the kid she with cos from where I stand he's a tool.
Zabs Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 I agree with Philo and what you said too At the end of the day ( other than it getting dark lol) she is now invlved with someone else. He SEEMS to think that that is all that counts. Well, what's the point in having the body when you don't have the mind? Hardly athe recipie for a loving, committed, lasting union hey? He is quite obviously jealous of the history you and your ex share. But for your own sake, I would change my details and start as you mean to go on as if I had a Woman call me abut my ex..I would be livid. Especially when I haven't been contacting him! Much love, Zabs xx 1
Chi townD Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 Well, if the guy said that he's been sleeping with her for the last 11 months, then it means she was cheating on you. Therefore, I'm not surprised that she denied it. I mean, if she wasn't guilty of cheating, she would have defended herself saying yes I have a boyfriend but it was after we broke up. Did she do that? Nope! She denied his existance and couldn't get of the phone fast enough. Chances are, you'll never hear from her again because she's a coward. 1
Author SpideyReign Posted May 8, 2012 Author Posted May 8, 2012 It's just a mess a still love the girl with all my heart but everything that's happened hasn't filled is with joy.a don't honestlybeleive she has given my number out which again shows the new boyfriend to b such a nice gut that he manages to acquiremy number from sumwhere I've never met him and only found out about him a couple of months ago and we don't roll in the same circles so the kid is a stranger but he done his best to get me number and send texts and not say who he was until that lovely text he sent last night all of that has to show him up to be the Dick that he seems to be a would never do what he's done cos I'm 24 and don't get kicks from doing random texts where ya don't say who u r.she has to be thinking weather or not she made the right decision considering he seems so insecure when as a say av done nothing.a just don't know what to make of it all.cheers for all the.replays and sorry for the walls of text my bad.
Chi townD Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 Look, for whatever reason, the dude contacted you. If she never erased your number from her phone...well, that's probably where he got it from. She could have been comparing you to him and he's sick of it. But, here's the thing. She still did you wrong! You can't ingore that. She had choosen and insecure d-bag, then that's her choice and not your problem. 1
wilsonx Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 (edited) If I were in your shoes, I would laugh at this guy. He's screwed. Typical rebounding idiot. Blame everyone else but the person he is with. "Its the current gf/bf ex's fault that the current bf/gf talks about their ex all day and night" Its actually the rebounding idiots fault I caught some flack like this a few weeks ago only it involved my personal property. The best thing to do is do nothing. Dont fuel what your ex considers love right now which is drama. Stay out of the drama. You are doing fine. Edited May 8, 2012 by wilsonx 3
Author SpideyReign Posted May 8, 2012 Author Posted May 8, 2012 I figured it was gigs. Like and a automatically thought he was a rebound still its lame 7 years and a didn't see it coming looking back there was signs but a think when ur trying so hard to make.something work you miss things right in front of u.a hope the rebound fails miserablely and then she contacts me but a don't hold any hope as much as ad say a want nothibg to do with ya ad probs take her back and sentence meself to a life of drama and servitude. Cheers for all the replys
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