dolphin132003 Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 1/2 months. and i am trying to figure out to tell him that i love him is it too soon ? how can i tell him? when should i tell him?
StartingAgain Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 You tell him you love him when you want to tell him. It makes no difference if its f weeks, four months or four years. It's easy to tell him. Simply take him in your arms, look him in the eye and say "I love you." Expect surprise, maybe a bit of discomfort and quite a bit of discussion. He may come back with a profession of love for you right away because he's feeling the same way and is afraid like you are. But it may take him by surprise. Sometime for men the realization that they love a woman is gradual, even insidiuous. As for when you should tell him, anytime the two of you are alone and relaxed, but not during of after sex -- at least not the first time.
faux Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 I'm going through something slightly similar. I've known this girl for five years and some months, but the situation is more complicated and I don't want to get into it. I'd like to tell her that I love her, but I know for me it isn't the right moment. I think that you, and I, shall know when the "right time" is to tell our special people how deeply we think we feel.
undecided Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 she told me after four months. you have to consider when the time is right for them to hear it as well. i was scared. it was too soon for me. i waited another year and she left me for a month because she didnt think i loved her at that time (i did-i was just worried about what would happen IF i did tell her) then you can read in my thread what happened after that....
WarningSign Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 Whenever the heck you feel like it. Don't be scared. Life is wonderful because it's full of risks you can take. Take a risk!
avsguy01 Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 My girlfriend i have known for 4 months, has admitted that she has fallen in love with me. She hasnt said it directly to me, as i think she is just being cautious since i hadnt said it back yet or told her im in love with her. In turn i have grown tremendous feelings for her. About a week ago i woke up and felt different. I felt like i was on a completely new level of feelings towards her. Feelings that i have never felt for someone ever before. I told her i was on a new level with her. I have told her before that i was falling in love with her, i just hadnt said i have, or directly told her. I just know that i am now. I want to tell her everytime i see her. I know they say if you love someone tell them, but i am waiting to tell her this weekend. We are going to an Aerosmith concert; her favorite band. Ive let it be known to her that this day is going to be special. She deosnt know it, but im going to tell her this day isnt just a day of fun at amusement park to the sound of a live rock concert, but its the day ive told you I LOVE YOU. Never thought this time of great feelings for someone would ever come. Im over-joyed.
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