TaraMaiden Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 So... you actually gave him a way in and room for manoeuvre? oh bother.....! OK: In future, do not respond - and if he texts you with any type of format designed to give you a way in - but patently deprecating, condescending and sarcastic or mean (and trust me - it will be) - just tell him - "Too bad - you blew it, sucker. NOW - don't contact me any more." The minute he gets in touch - let us know - do nothing until we give you our support, and any help you need. OK??
PegNosePete Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 Hum, before doing complete NC, I would be tempted to ask if he's serious about giving you £20k for the doorstop!!! 2
Author Own Worst Enemy Posted May 10, 2012 Author Posted May 10, 2012 after all, he can hardly say, yes ok i was using you! god i wish i had carried on ignoring him. next time, i come here first. thanks! the £20k may well be my biggest regret in years to come...
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