DavidNarn Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 so i noticed something a little odd.. its kinda killin me. while she loves me and i love her, her excitement for me has faded while mine has just got bigger. we still have a lot of good times, but i just randomly asked her if she missed being single and she said, "sometimes yes, like i miss all the attention from random guys and being flirty. i love flirting." and two months ago she said she didnt miss any of it.. before me her last boyfriend and her were together two years almost, and he made her stop talking to guys. so when they broke up she was single and literally hooked like 50 random guys. didnt have sex with any of them but she still was really hardcore flirty and LOVED the attention. when she got with me, she was like do you care if guys talk to me. i was like no idc as long as there is no flirting or sex talk then whatever. Idk. it just kinda hurt that she would say that. im glad shes honest but why does she miss that? i feel like she is either getting bored or im not giving her enough attention. which i think i give too much of. but idk.. btw we have been dating 7 months. idk... idk if her growing up a single child has anything to do with it or what. she is really independent. while honest though, she has never once cheated on anyone.
january2011 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 I would call it a slight concern but not necessarily something that you need to act on right now. It may be nothing, it may be something. You need more information. As long as you've both agreed that you are exclusive, I think you can just file away the conversation for now.
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