im scared to kiss this girl

[jlee45]

ok, first ever post here.. im mentally stumped. heres my background, im 25 and about 4 months ago i broke up with my gf of 3.5 years. im over it, it was time to move on. since then, ive had no problem hooking up with girls. ive never been worried about girls liking me, its kind of easy for me... recently i met this girl and i actually like her. i havent had feelings for anyone since my ex. we have gone out on a couple dates and hung out some and i can tell she likes me. we havent done anything. if i dont make a freaking move asap im going to go crazy from this anxiety or just bore the hell out of her and that will be it. now, if i met this same girl at a bar i would have probably already fooled around with her and not talked to her since. however, these feelings i have for her make it really hard for me to do anything. i dont get it! im completely comfortable around her, i dont get nervous until i start telling myself to go for it. im about to just tell her that i really like her and im a flippin weenie for no good reason.. completely stumped, its a flip flop for my personality. any advice? or idea why im acting this way?

Edited May 7, 2012 by jlee45

[MrNate 2.0]

ok, first ever post here.. im mentally stumped. heres my background, im 25 and about 4 months ago i broke up with my gf of 3.5 years. im over it, it was time to move on. since then, ive had no problem hooking up with girls. ive never been worried about girls liking me, its kind of easy for me... recently i met this girl and i actually like her. i havent had feelings for anyone since my ex. we have gone out on a couple dates and hung out some and i can tell she likes me. we havent done anything. if i dont make a freaking move asap im going to go crazy from this anxiety or just bore the hell out of her and that will be it. now, if i met this same girl at a bar i would have probably already fooled around with her and not talked to her since. however, these feelings i have for her make it really hard for me to do anything. i dont get it! im completely comfortable around her, i dont get nervous until i start telling myself to go for it. im about to just tell her that i really like her and im a flippin weenie for no good reason.. completely stumped, its a flip flop for my personality. any advice? or idea why im acting this way?

 

Nerves. Most men have them, and they never quite go away. However, what separates them are those that right through the nerves anyway. If she stops what she's doing, and locks eyes with you when you look at her for a few seconds (that's usually when I know) pucker up and get in there!

[smith9800]

There may be several reasons for that, even your past relationship. You are scared with the results of your past relationship. Now, you have to get over your relationship, so that you can make a move for your new relationship..

[amantis]

You are scared because you like her , its normal to feel nervous .

Just kiss her and thats it , its not that difficult