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Is he just lazy or uninterested


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Well--this is another thread I'm creating in order to evaluate the various problems I am having with my 7 Month long boyfriend. I feel sort of high maintenance these days and I'm not making much headway trying to solve my problems. So--I'm here for other people's thoughts, advise and alternatives to my view.

 

Since I have been with my boy, we have experienced some holidays--my birthday, Valentine's Day and most recently--our 6 month anniversary. I haven't received any cards--or presents--but the present thing is ok (he doesn't have much money). (I have only seen him give cards to his folks--not any friends). I expressed my discontent about it and have asked for a love letter--but that has not come to fruition. Also--we are both on friendster and he has given testimonials to other friends (both male and female) but not to me. I tried to bring it up without feeling rediculous but it was circumvented somehow.

 

Why do I want these things? And why am I using this information of evidence that he is not as interested in me as I am in him? Is there another side?

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I think it is just a man thing. I am the card type - I give cards for every occasion - but I never get them from my man. and that's OK --- I know he loves me.

 

Think about this --- you know how hard it is to stand in front of the card counter and pick out a card-- can you imagine a man doing it?

 

Just go on and don't dwell on - that's what I had to do. Be happy with a kiss or pat on the butt :love:

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