sid3 Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 I recently met a women through my brother. She knows him from his work, and he introduced us. The first time I met her I thought she was kind of cute and seemed friendly. I saw her later during the day and after chatting with her I realised she is really nice and she seems perfect for me. Problem: when I saw her that second time, she is in fact absolutely gorgeous in my eyes. I'm certain she was flirting with me a little. At least from what I remember, my head was kinda in the clouds. Anyhow, I'm a bit nervous that it'll be hard to hide my level of attraction. I thought maybe I should just try and treat her as I would any other date, but she's not any other date.. How to keep myself from putting her on pedestal is probably going to be tricky. I can definitely see myself dating this lady, my intuition is telling me she likes me. I think I'm my only obstacle at this point. We're going out mid week. Hopefully that'll be enough time to calm my nerves.
RedRobin Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 I'm sure you'll be fine. Being introduced through your brother is a very good start! Those are the ways I prefer to meet people too.
Author sid3 Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 I'm sure you'll be fine. Promise? Haha.... I've got it bad.My stomach feels funny! Hard to believe I put her phone number in the laundry with my jeans. Talk about having a panic attack.
Ninjainpajamas Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 It's extremely important to just be yourself and not go into Goofy mode and act all giddy and over zealous with your best possible behavior. Don't change, just relax...tell yourself you still have to get to know her, you still have to reserve yourself a little bit just to give yourself a more realistic level-headed perspective...get to know her, and you remember that you have things to bring to the table as well which is why she should be into you...have confidence. Otherwise just go for it, don't hesitate, show that you're interested...take her out, have a good time, It's ok to be nervous just don't let it overwhelm you and take it in stride, you're just talking with another human being (that happens to really gorgeous to you) 1
Author sid3 Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 Thanks for the excellent advice NinjaP. I was right a few weeks back, you are a wise man.
SJC2008 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Alright Sid3! Like RedRobin said being introduced by your brother is good, that also tells me her head won't be on a swivel if you will so it think that helps too. Good luck man!!!
smith9800 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 I think, you must date her... If you like her then she will most beautiful girl for you in the entire world..Its natural..tell her that you like her...
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