Chrisal23 Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 So today I saw my ex after a month of her breaking up with me. I totally ignored her and didn't even say hi. But I texted her a long message just saying how I felt. She broke up with me over the phone so I guess I had baby things I didn't get to say. I really hoped age texted back but at the sand time hoped she didn't. So she texted back saying we should talk in person cause texting won't get us anywhere? Any advice?
emilywtf Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 Don't get your hopes up, she is probably doing this to clear things up and get closure. Honestly, I'd suggest not even meeting with her, as it could stir up the pot and make things worse (reopen wounds, etc). If she asks why, say you just needed to get a few things out and that the text did it. Best of luck.
Author Chrisal23 Posted May 7, 2012 Author Posted May 7, 2012 Honestly I'm on the acceptance of both options. I'm the kind of person that will try to avoid "what if" situations. Honestly I love this girl. I know there are things I dislike about her as well, and have a couple of questions I need to clear out. Whether we get back together or not I will at least have a more focused approach in my life since I won't be breaking my head on what she thought. So we will meet tomorrow during lunch. I'm hoping for relief i guess.
Report This User Posted May 8, 2012 Posted May 8, 2012 You shud had never texted in the first place. Just ignore her. Feelings will come back and youll be hurt again. Dont get your hopes up. She just wants to discuss things more calmy so she is more happier of her self because of the break up, as mentioned above she wants closure. Dont do it. Thats it. The end. Move on.
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