sal110104 Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 Ok so from a previous thread I said how I met a bartender and gave him my number. We have been texting back & forth & I have seen him 2 more times - only when he is working though. He is very very flirty in person & on texting saying he cant wait til he sees me outsde of work, he really likes me.... I think we have a date for tonight & I say I think because sometimes I think he is just playing games - or maybe I am overanalyzing - I need some opionions please: Ok one wierd thing is Thurs night I texted him saying my schedule freed up a bit on Fri & maybe we could grab lunch before he went to work. - I never got a repsonse (this after texting me all day) - I did finally hear from him that night saying he left his charger at work and phone had died. Ok - benefit of the doubt. I saw him Fri night at work - very flirty again - I said my friends and I were heading to a local bar later - he said he would meet us out. Again no text or meeting - until next day saying he didnt get out until really late & thought I would be asleep. Repeat the same thing for last night. Question is - I told him I wanted to see him - so is he just playing around or maybe wants to wait until tonight when we can go out at a decent hour instead of 1am? I havent heard from him yet today - but dont expect to until later since he is working. What are outsiders take on this siutation? Should I give him the benefit of the doubt or write it off as a guy just playing games?
january2011 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Could be playing games. Could be genuine. Could be his style. However, if I were in this situation, I'd think that he was showing enough enthusiasm for someone in the early stages of dating (if it is a date). I'd just see how it goes tonight, but must admit that I wouldn't have high hopes beyond just hanging out with a new 'friend'.
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