Author SarahRose Posted May 13, 2012 Author Posted May 13, 2012 Okay, I won't ask you if he's depressed. I'll just toss it out in a straight-up fashion. I think "depression" excuses have become the new hip word to replace "lazy" and it's become so widespread that it's become absolutely ridiculous. 30 years ago, we recognized people who were lazy and we labeled them as such. Today, we have to toss all these fashionable psychological labels out that might somehow excuse their lazy behavior. Give me a break!!! You hit the nail on the head Sarah. You're the one suffering from depression because you come home everyday and look at a lazy, no-good, doofus of a husband, who wants to sit and entertain himself with dumbed-down video games. Simple solution. Tell him the free lunch is over and if he's not out looking for a job by Monday, you're either moving out or he is. Love can only go so far. When a guy plays his wife like this, he's taking full advantage of you and counting on "your love and commitment" to give him a free pass. This isn't what you signed up for when you got married. true there is no disorder, it is just laziness pure and simple. i made it very clear we weren't doing anything until he gets a job.
The Blue Knight Posted May 13, 2012 Posted May 13, 2012 true there is no disorder, it is just laziness pure and simple. i made it very clear we weren't doing anything until he gets a job. I hope that's enough to motivate him. Something tells me he'll just ride it out and hope you bend eventually.
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