irc333 Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 There's this woman I know in our social circle who had a reputation of dating more than one man at once. She's been having this long distance relationship with a man for the past 5 years and seems to visit him about once a month or 2 times a month several states a way. It was some high school flame she just couldn't let go of.....and would always see him, and at the same time would date guys locally as well. Recently, the past few months she started dating this guy....locally, and some of us knew him pretty well, he was really INTO her....I'd see them kissing and stuff every so often, so they were pretty up on PDA. They were always at every single event, together. After a while, I'd see him come stag , and I asked him, "So, where's so and so?" and he said, "She called it off, there was some guy up north that she's been seeing on and off for 5 years,and he's finally moving here." I was like "ouch". But, I'm noticing for every woman I meet.....she's either. 1. Has an on and off relationship with a guy, and during the "breaks" she dates other dudes that , well....those never turn into anything, and she goes back with the guy. 2. Like the above, in a LDR with a man, but see's other men behind their LDR's back. Not gender bashing or anything. Seems everyone is STILL hung up ont heir ex. Even happened with me...I didn't get emotionally attached or anything, but I found out this woman, who would go bac on the prowl only if she'd broke up with her bf...date others...and realized that nothing worked out with anyone NEW, and she'd go back with the ex....which is kind of a sign of desperation if you can't just break up with someone, and STAY single indefinitely.
RedRobin Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 This is why I don't do LDR. Alot of men are doing the same thing. Got their long distance honey for a FWB, then play the field locally. Some men who have jobs with crazy schedules often work in a mistress the same way. Regarding the simultaneous dating. Some people define this as 'not exclusive'. I'm not a fan of it, but others seem to take that as the norm. *shrug* so, what was the point of your thread? That people have different values/dating styles?
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