RodG Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 I'm almost at a year since, guys... May 2011. The last time I physically saw her was the end of April in 2011 (together for over 2 1/2 years, lived together for a year). I haven't had any communication from her since the end of May of last year. We spent almost 24/7 together....to nothing in the span of a month. Not a word for Christmas, not for my birthday not for anything (I didn't expect anything though, obviously). Which, doesn't bother me! The thought of her or what she's doing no longer bothers me. Rarely do I think of her anymore which is completely different from the first few months after it happened. I hadn't logged on to the site since last year which kind of sums it up. I've been worried about myself, and working on my on issues instead of dwelling on her and being sad I had no relationship. I've been working out since we broke up and am in the best shape of my life. I eat completely healthy, something we didn't do. I'm going to be going back to school in a new city. Things are rolling. It took me a few months after but it's better now. You have to realise, THEY don't matter. YOU do. You'll move on, don't worry about that. Grieving is completely normal. Trust me, when people say it'll be OK....it'll be OK, being alone is OK!!! After all, I've you're not happy alone, why would you be happy with someone else? 2
january2011 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Well done on reaching a year and the progress you've made in living well.
Steelrain322 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 I'm now 1 year BU, and 11 months NC. But I do see her from time to time drive by my work and it still kinda pains me to see. How do you go about not thinking about her? I still think about her everyday. I haven't had any sexual experiences with any other girls or any other relationships.
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