RipTide Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 Hey, lately I've been hangin around with a big group of fun people (including my ex). I just recently have an interest in a guy that is part of our little group. Everyone is really flirty with each other in our group so I can't for sure tell if he has an interest with me. It seems that lately he has been attempting to talk to me more so i dont know. How do I find out if he has real interest in me? Are there any signs i should look for? Or should i just wait awhile to see if anything happens? help me out here please.
StartingAgain Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 You say that he's trying to talk to you, so let him. If he wants to talk , suggest moving to another area away from the group so you can talk quietly and alone. Make sure you send him the signals that you are interested in him. If he is interested, he will open up. You'll know if he's interested or not. Women often believe that men are so tough and brave. The truth is we are just as nervous about approaching someone new as you are.
Fayebelle Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 Bring up a movie you wanna see- if he sounds interested ask him if he wants to go. Then see how things go when it's just the 2 of you.
KK'sLove Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 This is so hard for us women, I can't tell either. Before I started dating my ex fiance' I always thought he was flirting with me. He was part of a group of friends too, and I would catch him staring at me in the rear view mirror, touching me more frequently, just what I thought was "straight out" flirting but one night I got really drunk and told him how I felt about him and he was like "Oh my, I never even thought of you as any more than just a friend". I was like "what, are you kidding?" He was being serious, though that night he thought about it and we were together as of then. We lived together for 7 1/2 years till I finally called it quits. Another guy recently who I have dated on and off again, I can't tell if he likes me or not anymore. So a couple of weeks ago on the phone (he never calls me first) I finally told him that in the beginning I could tell that he likes me and now I just don't know. He got mad and said "How can you not tell? (I didn't say this but I thought, hello..you don't call and ask me out anymore...so why would I think you did?) I said to him "Well, I can't tell", He replied with "Take it like this, if I didn't like you, I wouldn't call you back". Funny thing is, that 4 days after that (2 Sundays ago), I called and left a message and he didn't call me back. Well, I did call him last night and he did call me back...so again..who knows? I wish there was a book that would straight out say if your guy does this or says this it means this. It would make all of our lives a lot easier. Can any guys tell us more. We know some men will show you that they are definately interested but what about the guys that are shy, or commitment phobic, or just aren't overly flirty with anyone....then how can you tell. What are the signs? Help us ladies, please!
annabelle Posted June 29, 2004 Posted June 29, 2004 That book would be a great idea. If any man is interested in selling a book to every woman in America, you might wanna try writing a book about what the subtle little nuances that guys always do really mean.
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