Chrisal23 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I have no one to talk to. I'm suffering now more than before idk why? She's moving on and so should I! It sucks but I'm really hurt at the moment. I was Hoping for some good advice. She broke up with me since she was always thinking I was cheating on her and I wasn't. So many problems but I still lover her. Its killing me each second since she's always on my mind!
ON MY OWN Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 Hello. Can you give me a brief synopsis of your situation? I was in something some years back that made me feel really bad and know the feeling of having noone to talk to. BTW, what made her think you were cheating on her? Talk soon and please look for positives in your life to help lift your spirits a bit and we can build on that!
daisy088 Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 I had a somewhat similar situation (my ex believed I was unfaithful somehow when I had never been/had 0 desire to stray in the slightest). This is the thing, if you were a supportive, loving, giving partner who was kind generous and gave her no reason to not trust you- then she is using this as an excuse to leave you most likely. I have seen this happen again and again. People dont know how to break it off with a partner so they grab at any excuse possible to make it your fault so they dont feel as guilty/look bad to mutual friends etc. Im so sorry this is happening to you. The best thing you can do is go NC. Block her on facebook and hide her friends on your newsfeed, delete her number, delete her email, take her off buddy lists, ask friends not to tell you about her. Get rid of her stuff and hide reminders of her if possible. Reorganize your furniture in your room. Cut her out of your life completely. Try to go through the motions and do something everyday. Go on a walk, meet up with a friend, read a book off the best seller list. Do things you enjoy doing. The best thing for me has been taking some time to get out of town. I feel removing myself from our old haunts has let me heal a bit. Good luck, I promise things will get better for both of us. You will be happy again. Life's rejections=life's protections.
Author Chrisal23 Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 Thanks, yes I felt the same way almost as if she felt guilty of something but I guess I didn't want to believe it. I loved this girl more than she loved me for a fact I know this. It's been 1 month since we broke up and I've been tempted to break NC but fortunately I haven't. My ex didn't trust me because when she was asking for time I came to another girl just for advice. We were still going out but my ex kept asking for time and I was so devastated and needed advice, so I went to this other girl. Was this wrong? She has chilled with another guy when we were going out as well. She also broke up with me all the time, and I always came back. I'm not perfect either but I wasn't playing with her feelings breaking up a lot, and not being honest about being with her. PS: a year later she confessed to me that the reason she was asking for time was because she wanted to go out with this other kid I mentioned earlier! This motivates me to never break NC and get her out of my life as much as I feel that I love her.
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