verhrzn Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 I know some gorgeous, high earning women who wade in the junk. They could do better, but their personal issues prevent them from identifying a good man (and/or they are just hopelessly attracted to the junk). And there are plenty of average women with great men/marriages. Appearances and professional success say little about relationship skills. Guess the average women snatched up the good ones early. By my age, and in my condition (ugly, average personality), there IS nothing but junk left. The men left won't commit, they only want hot girls... this thread is demonstrating exactly what kind of single men are left.
SmileFace Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Guess the average women snatched up the good ones early. By my age, and in my condition (ugly, average personality), there IS nothing but junk left. The men left won't commit, they only want hot girls... this thread is demonstrating exactly what kind of single men are left. Can I please see a picture of you? I really want to get an idea of why you say the things you do.
verhrzn Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Can I please see a picture of you? I really want to get an idea of why you say the things you do. There ya go, hope ya have a strong gag reflex.
SmileFace Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 You can't be ****ing serious? Stop the self pity **** -- there is nothing wrong with you. 2
Airborne Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 You can't be ****ing serious? Stop the self pity **** -- there is nothing wrong with you. Now you owe her a picture.
SmileFace Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Now you owe her a picture. II have tons on my page but you have to add me as a contact. She didn't ask but is more than welcome to add me.
Woggle Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 There ya go, hope ya have a strong gag reflex. There is nothing wrong with you.
gotye Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 She is NOT trolling! I've had the exact same experience. I even sent Necro my ex's picture to prove that me and Iris aren't just chasing after hot male models, or whatever counts as the 5% in your guys' head. i want to see this too
phineas Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 There ya go, hope ya have a strong gag reflex. i don't even... The only problem with the woman in that picture is she is fully clothed. 3
metalambience Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Guess the average women snatched up the good ones early. By my age, and in my condition (ugly, average personality), there IS nothing but junk left. The men left won't commit, they only want hot girls... this thread is demonstrating exactly what kind of single men are left. You're really cute don't be so negative. And I'm sure plenty on the guys on here aren't junk, even so it's not classy to call someone that.
AD1980 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 There ya go, hope ya have a strong gag reflex. Wow ive never seen such a hideous beast please delete!!!!!! that cute smile and huge breasts are making me sick
chimneychamp Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 WTF, verhrzn you are not ugly you're attractive. Seriously!
Cracker Jack Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Hey, verhrzn. If you were around my way, I'd have no problem taking you out. 100% serious. I saw a few of your pics before, but I really like that one. You really need to get off of this ugly bandwagon. I think you're sexy as hell. Seriously.
ThaWholigan Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 There ya go, hope ya have a strong gag reflex. I don't know who told you that you're ugly. And honestly, I'd tell you if I thought you were unattractive. You're not. You aren't even remotely fat. You are just fine. You do not even look any different from a lot of girls that have at least a few admirers.
Bob_Funk Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 V looks like an average 26 year old. That alone is enough to easily sleep with male 9's and 10's, get relationships with 7's and 8's, and have 6's promise her the world. Her male equivalent, on the other hand, would be in incel for life.
MrNate 2.0 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 V looks like an average 26 year old. That alone is enough to easily sleep with male 9's and 10's, get relationships with 7's and 8's, and have 6's promise her the world. Her male equivalent, on the other hand, would be in incel for life. Now surely you don't believe this. This doesn't make any sense.
MrNate 2.0 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 There ya go, hope ya have a strong gag reflex. Welp. With this said, I'm officially off the 'pity verhrzn' band wagon. The problems are not your looks at all. They are elsewhere. Now let's start from there. 1
verhrzn Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Yeah, you're all insane. Or maybe I have super powers that render my photos very different from real life. Did y'all miss the part about how the underemployed, overweight pot smoker dumped me for someone hotter?... Hell, MOST of the guys I've dated have made less money than me, have had less hobbies than me, and have been a little heavy in the middle section, and ALL of them ended up with gorgeous, super-sweet, nice women, after the guys decided they could do better than me. Seriously, Iris, what will it take to convince them?
SmileFace Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Yeah, you're all insane. Or maybe I have super powers that render my photos very different from real life. Did y'all miss the part about how the underemployed, overweight pot smoker dumped me for someone hotter?... Hell, MOST of the guys I've dated have made less money than me, have had less hobbies than me, and have been a little heavy in the middle section, and ALL of them ended up with gorgeous, super-sweet, nice women, after the guys decided they could do better than me. Seriously, Iris, what will it take to convince them? Thinking like this gets you where? Getting dumped by any guy should not have any bearing on your self worth. This pity crap isnt cool. I find my self attractive and get dumped by guys of all levels all the time -- however someone dumping me is there problem not mine.
verhrzn Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Thinking like this gets you where? Getting dumped by any guy should not have any bearing on your self worth. This pity crap isnt cool. I find my self attractive and get dumped by guys of all levels all the time -- however someone dumping me is there problem not mine. Then what about the whole "the only common dominator is you"? If every relationship fails over and over for the same reasons, then it is necessary to examine and fix those reasons, is it not? Or else it just happens again.
ThaWholigan Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Then what about the whole "the only common dominator is you"? If every relationship fails over and over for the same reasons, then it is necessary to examine and fix those reasons, is it not? Or else it just happens again. Whatever the common denominator is, it's not your looks. I don't know what it is, but I'm sure it's not that.
SmileFace Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Then what about the whole "the only common dominator is you"? If every relationship fails over and over for the same reasons, then it is necessary to examine and fix those reasons, is it not? Or else it just happens again. Yes, I am not saying your personality may not be boring as you ststed( or what ever phrase you used) but it has nothing to do with your looks. So the common denominator is not your looks but you.
gibson Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Yeah, you're all insane. Or maybe I have super powers that render my photos very different from real life. Did y'all miss the part about how underemployed, overweight pot smoker dumped me for someone hotter?... Did you see this / ignore this post in this thread? It seems most people these days have at least some level of bitterness towards the opposite sex and that is both genders. 1. They take dating way to seriously 2. They don't date for it's intended purposes (for fun or when they are ready to settle down, see if this is somebody they want a future with) 3. They don't have to be attracted to someone or not want to date someone but nobody else on the planet is allowed to do it too them. 4. They think a break up / end of relationship is a bad thing. It's not, it's a success. 5. Only they are allowed to break up / end a relationship and nobody should / could / would break up / end a relationship with them unless they have permission. 6. Etc, Etc, Etc. Basically a lot of people who think a break up / end of relationship / rejection is a reflection of who they are, what they have to offer, their self-worth, etc. Your problem is in bold above. Considering what little you described of your Ex... I am sure there was a lot of neglect, emotional and verbal abuse involved. If you were with him for a long period of time, the "damage" that is done is quite severe. The solution is below: Get your self-esteem, self-worth, confidence, "mojo", identity, validation, approval, etc. from within. Until you get "healthy" and fall in love with yourself again, you are not capable of having a "healthy" or loving relationship. More than likely, you will find / end up with someone just as bad or worse than your Ex. There are thousands of books you could read that will help you with this and seeing a professional who specializes in this would prove to be most useful / life changing!
Quiet Storm Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 V- Maybe you are so sure that a man is going to dump you for someone "better" that you sabotage it. There are lots of crappy people in this world. Many are personality disordered. Many are users and opportunists. Many are confused and their bad behavior is a simply self protective. Don't take it so personal. Most of the time, a person's behavior is related to their OWN issues. You have hooked up with some disappointing men. But I don't think all men are like that, V. Lots, yes. But all, no. Yes, men like to look at hot women. It is a hard truth to accept for many. But men can and do appreciate our other qualities, too. So I say keep on trying. You may feel hopeless, but it's not. You are not ugly. You are not fat. You may not be a stunner, but you are attractive. You have opportunities. If when you meet men you are already thinking that it's just a matter of time before they leave you, you may be projecting a negative attitude.
MrNate 2.0 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Seriously, Iris, what will it take to convince them? What will it take to convince you that you might just be wrong?
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