Eternal Sunshine Posted May 9, 2012 Share Posted May 9, 2012 I agree with iris. I don't full on approach but will give a guy a smile and a look. I may also position myself closer to him. If he starts talking to me, I will be extra warm and engaging. No chance he will get one word answers...I will ask him questions...but then again it's up to him to move it from conversation to asking for my number. Link to post Share on other sites
Romeofud Posted May 9, 2012 Share Posted May 9, 2012 Do you remember how it flowed? I can imagine us in the same room, you give me a coy look and I approach. I saw, Hi! How are you. You respond "Good. And you." "I'm good." Then Awkward silence. Then I walk away feeling like an idiot. Wanna know what your problems are, man? You take girls too seriously & you need to chill out for a sec. Here's some quick sound advice to you so its up to you to follow or keep flunking, I dont give a **** either way lol. Start running up to girls you like and just make a comment on what they got on like a remark about their shoes, who they're texting, or what they are thinking about. Let her reply. 9 out 10 she'll engage you a bit then you ask some other off-color stuff and then walk away. Why? Because you're not in the place to date yet, man, thats why, got me? I think you need to just get your confidence back. A day at a time, jack, lol. After you get better at throwing quick-witted banter at chicks then you'll escalate it when you meet a chick that really shows interest in you. But for now, you just wanna do the numbers game without expecting much. I cant begin to tell you, man, how I did just that back in the day and now I can throw any stupid, funny **** at a broad and 7 out of 10 they'll stop to let me hit on them and 4 out of that 7 will give me the math and 2 out of the 4 I'll nail in days. Its hit or miss even now but I still gets mine, B. It will be mostly miss with you in the beginning til you perfect the art in how to approach and not give a **** what she thinks of you in return, as long as you just get out and do it, thats a win to me. Your only loss is to sit there and do squat because you're sure to fail then. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Monm82 Posted May 9, 2012 Share Posted May 9, 2012 The average woman has more options than the average man. It may be hard for for them to find the right guy, but they still have more options. The average guy has a hard time finding any woman interested in him, period. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted May 9, 2012 Share Posted May 9, 2012 Wanna know what your problems are, man? You take girls too seriously & you need to chill out for a sec. Here's some quick sound advice to you so its up to you to follow or keep flunking, I dont give a **** either way lol. Start running up to girls you like and just make a comment on what they got on like a remark about their shoes, who they're texting, or what they are thinking about. Let her reply. 9 out 10 she'll engage you a bit then you ask some other off-color stuff and then walk away. Yeah I can start there. It basically means expecting nothing to happen. I don't have a clue how to actually escalate but I guess I'll work on that later. Link to post Share on other sites
Author iris219 Posted May 9, 2012 Author Share Posted May 9, 2012 Do you remember how it flowed? I can imagine us in the same room, you give me a coy look and I approach. I saw, Hi! How are you. You respond "Good. And you." "I'm good." Then Awkward silence. Then I walk away feeling like an idiot. We just started talking (like people do), not flirting, though it got a little flirty towards the end. We introduced ourselves and discussed basic info (like where we work). He thought he recognized me from a specific place so that exchange went something like this: Him: I think I've seen you at _____. Me: Oh, maybe. I go there fairly often, so it's possible. Him: Yeah, it's one of my favorite places...Blah, blah...Something about the bands that play there. Me: I'm actually going this Saturday to see ___ play. Are you going? Him: Well...I think I will. Looks like I have a reason to go now. I thought the last comment was really cute. Somedude, when a woman is interested, she'll make the conversation easy for you. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted May 9, 2012 Share Posted May 9, 2012 We just started talking (like people do), not flirting, though it got a little flirty towards the end. We introduced ourselves and discussed basic info (like where we work). He thought he recognized me from a specific place so that exchange went something like this: Him: I think I've seen you at _____. Me: Oh, maybe. I go there fairly often, so it's possible. Him: Yeah, it's one of my favorite places...Blah, blah...Something about the bands that play there. Me: I'm actually going this Saturday to see ___ play. Are you going? Him: Well...I think I will. Looks like I have a reason to go now. I thought the last comment was really cute. Somedude, when a woman is interested, she'll make the conversation easy for you. Ah, now I see how it worked. You had some common element and he was able to build upon that. And I'm fully aware that when a woman is interested, she'll make it easy on the guy. Because if she isn't interested, she won't. Link to post Share on other sites
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