FrustratedStandards Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 The nice girls are the ones that ignore you. If you so much as compliment they're shoes out ask how their night was most say to f##k off, go F##k yourself, threaten to sic their guy friends after you, laugh in your face wildly, etc Its actually quite hilarious and entertaining This is the stupidest thing i've ever heard. I honestly don't understand why people behave like this. Wtf!
ThaWholigan Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 In London, there are quite a few girls who actually get ANGRY when they aren't approached. I've seen girls make it OBVIOUS that they want to be approached and a lot of the time it won't happen. I remember when I was in college and I saw this Russian girl walk past. She had a very nice body and made eyes at me a number of times, but I didn't take the hint. She finally turned her head round and shouted "COME OVER AND SPEAK TO ME!!". The funniest part of the story? I didn't go over and speak to her
FrustratedStandards Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 Lmao! This sounds like me. I hint and hint and the dummy doesn't get it. UGH! I totally know how she feels LOL but yeah the yelling was a bit over the top Out of curiosity ThaWholigan, how on EARTH did you not see that she was interested? Girls don't make googly eyes like that just for nothing
ThaWholigan Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 Lmao! This sounds like me. I hint and hint and the dummy doesn't get it. UGH! I totally know how she feels LOL but yeah the yelling was a bit over the top Out of curiosity ThaWholigan, how on EARTH did you not see that she was interested? Girls don't make googly eyes like that just for nothing Well, she was smiling when she said it, so it was kind of in jest. I was just being a pussy at the time. She was definitely late 20s and I was only about 17. Back then, not only was I more anxious, but I didn't read interest all too well (autism ). It was obvious after she yelled though. I still didn't take the hint though, bad form on my part
FrustratedStandards Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 lol well you were only 17, I don't blame you. That's hilarious though lol! Were you embarrassed when she did that?
ThaWholigan Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 lol well you were only 17, I don't blame you. That's hilarious though lol! Were you embarrassed when she did that? A little bit! I was with all my college friends at the time, and they all witnessed
Shaun-Dro Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 What are these some points of mine that are in anyway arguable to that? #1 gals reject the OP because they don't like him #2 gals dislike and devise ways to avoid being approached #3 it's fair that he approaches who he wants & she ignores who she wants #4 most likely the gals don't want the ignored guys to do any legwork It's not silly to me as I doubt many would continue an activity where they get burned 9/10 or 7/10 times doing something especially if that activity tends to be fruitless and bothersome. So tack on the bad experiences with the possibility that she may not be interested in dating or having a relationship and/or prefers to go about her day without unwanted intrusions on her space and interruptions on her time. To me that suggests gals give guys their attention otherwise you're provoking them. So you're saying that all or most guys when they don't get what they want retailate like children throwing a tantrum..?.. If it was only a few or some guys who behaved this way then it's misleading to state 'doing so can only bring'. To me that suggest doing what guys want is what's best for everyone and you should be happy that he did what he wanted because soon you'll be an old hag who has lost her looks. It's not a best alternative to her if she didn't want to chat or if she did want to go about her day without having to placate someone's ego for an action he chose to do. Some gals don't need others to remind them that they look good and some may prefer other ways to remind themselves. To me that suggests gals should shut it and be grateful that guys are approaching that means you're not ugly be happy and shut it otherwise they're bad. It's quite a logical leap to label a gal mean spirited for being annoyed at approaches because she doesn't approach. How does her not doing something play into her getting the mean spirited label for her annoyance?Are you overlooking that perhaps she makes a pass at guys she fancies when you're not around. Most likely gals who dislike and devise tactics to avoid being approached won't be worrying about why guys have stopped pestering them. They'll likely be celebrating. If this is some implication of her being alone there's plenty of alternatives to getting guys- school, work, social circle, and online dating- and the alternatives seem to be what many gals prefer. If this is the case then what other real purpose do women serve if they're going to avoid nature's calling to procreate? Men are not avoiding so why should women continue to be around here if they so badly want to avoid being picked up by their counterparts? I take it you dislike men as well.
udolipixie Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 If this is the case then what other real purpose do women serve if they're going to avoid nature's calling to procreate? Men are not avoiding so why should women continue to be around here if they so badly want to avoid being picked up by their counterparts? I take it you dislike men as well. It's quite a logical leap to equate disliking or avoiding being approached to not avoiding procreating. A gal disliking or avoiding approaches doesn't necessarily mean she's out of options as there's plenty of alternatives to getting guys- school, work, social circle, and online dating- and the alternatives seem to be what many gals prefer. Also there's an oversight in equating disliking or avoiding approaches to avoiding procreating is that gals can procreate without having a relationship with a guy via sperm banks. Though to answer your your questions the other real purpose of gals is whatever that gal decides and gals should continue to be around here* because they are human beings with rights not a sexual resource to be evenly distributed amongst males in society rather than autonomous individuals. I would think you're the one with dislike for the opposite gender as you don't seem to see any purpose gals can serve other than being a babymaker. Along with essentially saying if gals don't enjoy guys approaching them they shouldn't be around here. * I'm taking here to mean the country, public places, etc...?...
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