The scene in Friends with Ross staring through Chandler's peephole at Rachel's date

[sam2012]

Anyone else remember that scene?

 

Where he's going crazy knowing she is on a date right at that moment.

 

I'm doing that right now..Though I'm not actually staring at her, and I don't have Chandler there to support me. Just know she's out now. On a date. All sorts going through my head.

 

"If she kisses him I'm gonna kill myself.. She's going in, she's going in...HE'S GOING IN" lol but so true

 

Just sucks. He might be the one for her, they might start going out serious, they may end up sleeping togther tonight, she might see him in the way she used to see me etc. It's not me anymore.. gutted

Edited May 5, 2012 by sam2012

[january2011]

No, but I was in a similar situation once. Not going to do that again if I can help it. That's why it's best to go NC - no news, no checking in and no keeping tabs.

[xxSRMxx]

Dont want to give you false hope or anything.... but sometimes dating someone new can make you realise what you did have.

 

My best friend and her ex spent 3 years being very on and off, I always used to tell her to get rid of him because they were not stable enough. The last split they had was for 6 months and they both got with someone new during this time. She lay crying in bed for a week when she found out he was with someone else (even though she was seeing someone herself!)

 

cut a long story short, it both made them realise how much they meant to each other.and since that 6 month break they have been together for a further 2 years and never been better.

 

On the other hand, think about all the annoying things your ex used to do, and how much it will annoy there new partner also!

[Kamila]

January is right, you shouldn't keep tabs on her, you're only going to hurt more.