dsw31 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 (edited) Ok, Some of you may have read my story.If not, I have been nc for about 2 weeks now (since my last email exchange).Broken up for about 6 weeks now. I have mostly accepted the breakup & have been doing rather well So today... I'm sitting in my car, minding my own business, when I see my ex jogging past.I totally ignored him but, he actually came over to my car & knocked on the window. Then he says- "Hi! Do you want to go 1/2 on a stick of ganga butter? You're the only one I can think of who might wanna buy it" I said- "No thanks, I have no use for it. Then he said- "Ok then.Talk to you later" Really? How stupid is that? I'm not analyzing or even happy about it. I guess it's just a vent. WTF?? Does he think I will actually be friends with him or something? Edited May 5, 2012 by dsw31
Author dsw31 Posted May 5, 2012 Author Posted May 5, 2012 Ok...I lied! I'm feeling a little sh*tty now! I mean why would he do that? To gage my reaction to him? Was it just an outburst because he didn't know how to react? I know I shouldn't even read anything out of this but I can't help it. Feels like he set me back in my progress just a little bit
TaraMaiden Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I have to ask.... what the heck is 'ganga butter'....?
Author dsw31 Posted May 5, 2012 Author Posted May 5, 2012 Lol! Oh yeah...sorry. It's butter with marijuana melted into it.So you can bake cookies or brownies with.
TaraMaiden Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Tell him I'll have it. I've got the in-laws coming over on tuesday, and I was going to make garlic bread. that should liven up an otherwise boring afternoon.... 3
geegirl Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Ah, I was wondering what that was..."Ganja" Butter. Didn't know what Ganga was. That's what we call marijuana back home. In any case, I'm sure it is a setback but you can't speculate why he did it. Maybe he wanted to get a reaction, gauge your interest or maybe he was just being an idiot. 1
TaraMaiden Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 See, dsw31, I was just trying to make you giggle a bit... 'cos you know, really, he's no big deal.... just an attempt to link in, faze you, act like nothing happened, his trying to act, like, well.... normal.... really, you and I both know he was just being an idiot. "Billy no-think".... I'd still love to see what effect it would have on my elderly in-laws, tho'.....! 2
Author dsw31 Posted May 5, 2012 Author Posted May 5, 2012 Thanks ladies- you guys rock btw! Still doesn't answer anything but I guess it doesn't matter.
TaraMaiden Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 You're right. That's exactly it. It doesn't matter. His head his inaccessible, his thought processes even less so. why he does what he does is bizarre, and frankly, not really worth wasting your time over. It always has to be the same: It little matters what 'they' do - the thing that matters most, is how you let it affect you. And as you so rightly concluded - it doesn't matter. Clever girl. 2
geegirl Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 Thanks ladies- you guys rock btw! Still doesn't answer anything but I guess it doesn't matter. That's the thing. There are no answers. Can't speak for his idiotic behavior. We can speculate reasons as to why but to actually figure and pinpoint his mess is going to be hard to do. Best thing to do is to stay away from dysfunction. He's just reminded you again of your hurt, but that's okay. In a few days you'll put this episode behind and keep moving on.
Author dsw31 Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 Well... Just finished up a little smoke session & overanalyzed a little more I just wanted to say it's probably a combination of everything but Tara- I think you nailed it.I think he's trying to act like nothing happened. Still doesn't matter..infact...it just made me angry (which is good!) Thanks again guys! I'm done analyzing...gotta go watch the UFC fight
TaraMaiden Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 You need to change your location to 'who gives a damn?' 1
Author dsw31 Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 You need to change your location to 'who gives a damn?' I just packed my bags & moved into a new neighborhood! Couldn't find any property in "who gives a damn" but I found a really nice cozy place at "almost there" 2
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