Caius Ballad Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 (First like to say I refuse to play the dating game of life because it's one sided meaning it ONLY benefits females.) Life as we know it here on mother earth for us humans is mostly an illusion. There is no true equality because men and women are NOT equal. There is no love for the divine and magic don't exist. What we have today is a system of control giving women power because in truth society still views you as an inferior lifeform. Instead, today I'm going to tell you what women's true power is. Females are designed to manipulate and control men of Alpha or Beta status. Alpha are the most simple minded beast because they think they are in control when in fact the are utilitarian OBJECTS molded and crafted by society. Your very Alpha male instincts make sure you stay in your gender ROLE like a good little pet. From how you act to what you wear is crafted by what certain high status WOMEN DEMAND! Most men are so enslaved by female control that they still because in Honor, loyalty and pride. Three things that really never existed in the world of science. All three words designed to keep the White Knight Beta male in his place as a (slave) Protector and (drone) Leader of (her) his house. Because truth be told if you men don't dress, act, speak, or make women feel a certain why you have 0% chance of getting with her. These here is when male enslavement instinct kicks in. When males think they are manning up ut in reality they are becoming what their society and/or females demand of them. Male existence is that of a happy slave. You TRUST your loyal, honorable wife not realizing such things are a system of control women use to keep you in your prideful gender role as her protector slave. Mind you I'm NOT saying all of this is bad. I'm just telling men how reality works. If you play the dating game you will pass the final test in become the females pet. Because at any given time your female master can easily find another male-slave. The only true path to freedom is going your own way by NOT dating women. You can have SAFE sex with them but never date or connect deeply with them if your a guy going his own way. So again. once you understand the basic structure of female existence you'll realize she's designed to enslave men for her own needs no matter how much she (manipulates) puts on an act of warm heartedness. Your male instincts tells you to be her slave and you must be strong to fight it. (The real kicker is most of you men here won't ever know you're slaves.)
Imported Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I take it by your avatar and your rationalization to make yourself feel better about not having any luck with women, that you have no social skills and spend way too much time playing video games. You're probably under 30 years old, but think you know it all. You don't. All that you typed out here is just excuses for your own situation that you rationalized out to make yourself believe it's somebody else's fault and there is no problem with you. Enjoy the fantasy world that you are building in your mind. 3
dasein Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Welcome to the forum. Not sure I understand your OP, but this is a great place to vent frustrations and improve one's outlook and behaviors. Good luck.
ohmygoshistalk Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I spent the last 3 years (honestly) reading about why men do this and that to women. I discovered the madonna-whore complex, read about narcisstic men and I also read this: One reason why romantic rejection is so common in society is a tendency called falling upward. People generally desire mates that are higher than themselves on such characteristics as status and physical attractiveness, but not ones who are lower. When someone falls in love with a person who has aspirations that are higher, that love is less likely to be reciprocated, potentially leading to rejection.
Bob_Funk Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 (edited) Excellent post. It's a tradeoff for sure. Do I submit to this system which I find so oppressive and distasteful (dating) in hopes of acquiring the dangling carrot (sex)? Or do I go my own way and become celibate? Unfortunately, being weak of flesh, I'm still leaning towards the former. I'm hoping by the time I'm 30 my libido will be diminished enough that I can truly go my own way. Edited May 5, 2012 by Bob_Funk
verhrzn Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 So get a Real Doll and "free" yourself from the oh-so-crushing hypnotism of p*ssy.
Author Caius Ballad Posted May 5, 2012 Author Posted May 5, 2012 I spent the last 3 years (honestly) reading about why men do this and that to women. I discovered the madonna-whore complex, read about narcisstic men and I also read this: One reason why romantic rejection is so common in society is a tendency called falling upward. People generally desire mates that are higher than themselves on such characteristics as status and physical attractiveness, but not ones who are lower. When someone falls in love with a person who has aspirations that are higher, that love is less likely to be reciprocated, potentially leading to rejection. Men and women do what they do because they are still animals. It's all basic instinct most of the world doesn't want to admit is true. Women by nature are hypergamous seeking higher status males. Men on the other hand simply want you to look highly attractive. It's basic human nature society views as evil or bad as you can see. I take it by your avatar and your rationalization to make yourself feel better about not having any luck with women, that you have no social skills and spend way too much time playing video games. You're probably under 30 years old, but think you know it all. You don't. All that you typed out here is just excuses for your own situation that you rationalized out to make yourself believe it's somebody else's fault and there is no problem with you. Enjoy the fantasy world that you are building in your mind. I don't hate women neither do I have any issues with them. My perception of reality is that of a brutal scientific view. I say around 90% of the world views relationships through a social engineered lens. How you reacted is as predicted seeing as I went past your comfort zone. To everybody else: This is NOT a hate post. I respect females for their animal nature as i do men. The world we live in is pure BS. Looks to some degree and status matters a lot because we are still animals no matter how advance we think we are. We as humans need to stop looking at female hypergamy and certain male sexuality traits as a bad thing. It's neither GOOD or BAD to be honest.
Imported Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I don't hate women neither do I have any issues with them. My perception of reality is that of a brutal scientific view. I say around 90% of the world views relationships through a social engineered lens. How you reacted is as predicted seeing as I went past your comfort zone. To everybody else: This is NOT a hate post. I respect females for their animal nature as i do men. The world we live in is pure BS. Looks to some degree and status matters a lot because we are still animals no matter how advance we think we are. We as humans need to stop looking at female hypergamy and certain male sexuality traits as a bad thing. It's neither GOOD or BAD to be honest. That's funny, because your reaction is exactly as I predicted. I know you don't like the reality of your abilities with women and you'll rationalize the hell out of it to make it all seem pointless so that you don't actually have to experience life. You're trying so hard to sound smart, but you're just a kid or at the very least, someone with a little boy's perception of women and a refusal to grow up.
threebyfate Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 *pulls on thigh-high black leather stiletto boots and cracks whip* Heel!
ThaWholigan Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 This OP doesn't make sense. As far as I know, I am a slave to no-one. How odd...... 1
zengirl Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 It sounds like you're talking about socialization. In a weird way that I don't agree with, but that's the best I can make out. We're all subject to socialization --- male or female --- and what is expected of us is very much determined by our culture's socialization regarding gender, but also other things. Having separate gender roles and socializing girls and boys differently is wrong, but it is a fact of life that probably isn't going away --- we can and have minimized it, opened our minds (as a society) to expanding and deteriorating roles that were previously laid out. Additionally, each region/country/family/socio-economic group/etc has different levels of socialization. I suppose you can be a slave to socialization, but not all people are or have to be.
PlumPrincess Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Women by nature are hypergamous seeking higher status males. Men on the other hand simply want you to look highly attractive. Unless most men are highly attractive it has to be concluded that men are also trying to find a partner with a higher status. 1
The Humbler Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Sounds like the op doesn't like women very much. Oh well, more for me 2
Romeofud Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 (First like to say I refuse to play the dating game of life because it's one sided meaning it ONLY benefits females.) Life as we know it here on mother earth for us humans is mostly an illusion. There is no true equality because men and women are NOT equal. There is no love for the divine and magic don't exist. What we have today is a system of control giving women power because in truth society still views you as an inferior lifeform. Instead, today I'm going to tell you what women's true power is. Females are designed to manipulate and control men of Alpha or Beta status. Alpha are the most simple minded beast because they think they are in control when in fact the are utilitarian OBJECTS molded and crafted by society. Your very Alpha male instincts make sure you stay in your gender ROLE like a good little pet. From how you act to what you wear is crafted by what certain high status WOMEN DEMAND! Most men are so enslaved by female control that they still because in Honor, loyalty and pride. Three things that really never existed in the world of science. All three words designed to keep the White Knight Beta male in his place as a (slave) Protector and (drone) Leader of (her) his house. Because truth be told if you men don't dress, act, speak, or make women feel a certain why you have 0% chance of getting with her. These here is when male enslavement instinct kicks in. When males think they are manning up ut in reality they are becoming what their society and/or females demand of them. Male existence is that of a happy slave. You TRUST your loyal, honorable wife not realizing such things are a system of control women use to keep you in your prideful gender role as her protector slave. Mind you I'm NOT saying all of this is bad. I'm just telling men how reality works. If you play the dating game you will pass the final test in become the females pet. Because at any given time your female master can easily find another male-slave. The only true path to freedom is going your own way by NOT dating women. You can have SAFE sex with them but never date or connect deeply with them if your a guy going his own way. So again. once you understand the basic structure of female existence you'll realize she's designed to enslave men for her own needs no matter how much she (manipulates) puts on an act of warm heartedness. Your male instincts tells you to be her slave and you must be strong to fight it. (The real kicker is most of you men here won't ever know you're slaves.) Bro, what difference does it make when all we gotta do as men is get the pussy & be done lol. Stop bitching already
threebyfate Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I like the slave/master concept but when expressed to my husband, he asked me why I'm on "that crazy site" again! 2
verhrzn Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Unless most men are highly attractive it has to be concluded that men are also trying to find a partner with a higher status. As my good friend the TV would say," Lawyered."
Negative Nancy Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Most men are so enslaved by female control Because truth be told if you men don't dress, act, speak, or make women feel a certain why you have 0% chance of getting with her. Male existence is that of a happy slave. And yet you call women an inferior lifeform
Woggle Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Nobody can make you a slave if you don't want to be. Ditch any woman that expects you to give her the royal princess treatment.
Negative Nancy Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Women by nature are hypergamous seeking higher status males. Men on the other hand simply want you to look highly attractive. What do you mean, "simply"? Are you trying to imply that having looks as the most important criteria is somehow less shallow? 1
udolipixie Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 (edited) Egh I'd say guys still win out in the end as they seem to be judged less harshly on their youth/beauty, are valued more for who they are rather than what they look like, and are able to more easily get younger/more attractive partners than gals. Quite unsure how the dating life only benefits gals as many guys are dating gals they desire some even offering little in return. There's no true equality because people aren't equal. Many men are better looking, bigger below, and smarter than other men. Historically society has and does view gals as an inferior lifeform though it seems in the 21st century that misandry is increasing so guys get a taste of that inferiority as well. Hmm.. to me it's the female gender role that's equivalent to being a good little pet seeing as how they're essentially a maid, cook, nanny, and prostitute who service and adore the guy. As well as the meme seems to be guys are superior/better, guy = human being & gal = attractive thing, and how guys are the leader aka wear the pants. For my country it seems most guys don't trust marriage itself so I doubt they'd consider their wifes loyal or honorable. I doubt many guys trust gals or consider gals loyal or honorable with the amount of anti-American gals and increasing hatred, bitterness, and resentment towards gals. I think most men are enslaved by their biological urges not female control. If guys were so enslaved by female control or tied into honor, loyalty, and pride then rape, abuse, harassment, and such wouldn't exist. Both genders are suspectible to becoming what society demands of them. Doubtful that guys are becoming what gals demand as most guys it seems think they know what gals want, think gals don't know what they want, or want to dictate what gals should want. Both gals and guys can get another partner and if they are over 30 the guy is most likely to have a far better chance. Nice spiel I wonder how you'd react to hearing that guys are designed to enslave gals for their own needs no matter how much he (manipulates) puts on an act of warm heartedness and history have shown this treatment. "Because truth be told if you men don't dress, act, speak, or make women feel a certain why you have 0% chance of getting with her." I think that applies generally for both genders no matter the sexual orientation. It's not a gender thing it's a people thing specifically it's a thing called attraction. Edited May 6, 2012 by udolipixie 2
Author Caius Ballad Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 Egh I'd say guys still win out in the end as they seem to be judged less harshly on their youth/beauty, are valued more for who they are rather than what they look like, and are able to more easily get younger/more attractive partners than gals. Quite unsure how the dating life only benefits gals as many guys are dating gals they desire some even offering little in return. There's no true equality because people aren't equal. Many men are better looking, bigger below, and smarter than other men. Historically society has and does view gals as an inferior lifeform though it seems in the 21st century that misandry is increasing so guys get a taste of that inferiority as well. Hmm.. to me it's the female gender role that's equivalent to being a good little pet seeing as how they're essentially a maid, cook, nanny, and prostitute who service and adore the guy. As well as the meme seems to be guys are superior/better, guy = human being & gal = attractive thing, and how guys are the leader aka wear the pants. For my country it seems most guys don't trust marriage itself so I doubt they'd consider their wifes loyal or honorable. I doubt many guys trust gals or consider gals loyal or honorable with the amount of anti-American gals and increasing hatred, bitterness, and resentment towards gals. I think most men are enslaved by their biological urges not female control. If guys were so enslaved by female control or tied into honor, loyalty, and pride then rape, abuse, harassment, and such wouldn't exist. Both genders are suspectible to becoming what society demands of them. Doubtful that guys are becoming what gals demand as most guys it seems think they know what gals want, think gals don't know what they want, or want to dictate what gals should want. Both gals and guys can get another partner and if they are over 30 the guy is most likely to have a far better chance. Nice spiel I wonder how you'd react to hearing that guys are designed to enslave gals for their own needs no matter how much he (manipulates) puts on an act of warm heartedness and history have shown this treatment. "Because truth be told if you men don't dress, act, speak, or make women feel a certain why you have 0% chance of getting with her." I think that applies generally for both genders no matter the sexual orientation. It's not a gender thing it's a people thing specifically it's a thing called attraction. Guys win only if they are men going their own way meaning not dating or having kids with women. Then there is the Alpha/Beta/ Omega male structure men have to put up with. Omega males of society get pretty much no girls. Beta males have to work hard because most of todays women are entitled. Alpha males have it easy but at the same time they are tools. For you women on the other hand all you have to do is stay healthy in shape, speak well and look pretty. That's it, all you gotta do ladies. You ladies do not have to worry about status, money and having game. Things that keep men enslaved: -Showing weakness turns women off = So most men act tough -Women think short guys are less masculine = SO most guys will have to make up for it by means of acting extra masculine. -Women demand certain masculine traits in men = Men are slaves to only expressing certain traits. -Most women only settle down after they have banged tons of alpha males = The married man is a controlled beta who doesn't know his wife had tons of alpha meat. -Women do not love men for men. Any guys in society that doesn't appeal to female standards of what guys should be isn't loved.......thus women only use men not actually love men. Woman like your tool traits of what you can provide HER or how you make HER feel. Again women can NOT love. With all that said I don't hate women. Hating women would be like hating cats for being natural shallow selfish animals. Cats are what they are and women are what they are.
Author Caius Ballad Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 Originally Posted by PlumPrincess Unless most men are highly attractive it has to be concluded that men are also trying to find a partner with a higher status. ^ 100% wrong. A man will date or even have sex with an attractive girl even if she's poor or smells funny. Women on the other hand won't even notice short broke guy. That's why women are called hypergamous creatures of status.
Recommended Posts