usabup Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 ...was no matter whether you have been dumped or been the dumper, no matter how much you did or didn't love them and no matter how hard it is....just dust yourself down and get on with it. You can't chance things that are out of your control. You can't change mistakes from the past. You should always learn from them but you can't go back. You can't change someone's feelings for you. You can't force someone to love you. Every minute you spend trying to figure out what went wrong, what you could of done different or trying to hatch plans to get them back is just wasted minutes of your life. The best and most productive thing you can do is give yourself a smack across the back of the head, man up and carry on with life. These boards can be a great help at times, but don't spend too long on them. Don't spend time in bed or at home wishing things were different. Don't waste a second being unhappy....just keep smiling and get on with it!
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