Lad123 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Hello everyone! I think it's fair to say I've had the worst 2 days in a long while. I don't even know why. I've had no contact with my exgf in nearly 2 months. But I've thought today maybe I should e-mail her. To say what I don't know. I was sort of hoping I could gain some closure. I just wish I knew something that would get the ridiculous false hopes out of my head. I know deep down that she's never coming back (shes moved to another country) and I should just move on. But still I find myself gawping at posts from people who have got back together which I know I shouldn't be doing. I'm so tired of these feelings just consuming my mind all the time, no matter what I do. I've lost count of the number of times I come home and just break down. After 3 months its pathetic!! I just want to know if people gained acceptance on their own or did they do/see/hear something that made them think 'that's it...I'm done'. I think this is similar to a previous post of mine, so i apologise for repetition but I find helps to type this stuff out. Massive thanks to you all!!
sam2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Hello everyone! I think it's fair to say I've had the worst 2 days in a long while. I don't even know why. I've had no contact with my exgf in nearly 2 months. But I've thought today maybe I should e-mail her. To say what I don't know. I was sort of hoping I could gain some closure. I just wish I knew something that would get the ridiculous false hopes out of my head. I know deep down that she's never coming back (shes moved to another country) and I should just move on. But still I find myself gawping at posts from people who have got back together which I know I shouldn't be doing. I'm so tired of these feelings just consuming my mind all the time, no matter what I do. I've lost count of the number of times I come home and just break down. After 3 months its pathetic!! I just want to know if people gained acceptance on their own or did they do/see/hear something that made them think 'that's it...I'm done'. I think this is similar to a previous post of mine, so i apologise for repetition but I find helps to type this stuff out. Massive thanks to you all!! I can't give you any advice as I'm pretty much in the same situation, so I'll just add my appreciation to anyone who can reply!
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