lalalandman Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I've been brooding here for too long. I'll be deleting my profile and ending my service. I wish everyone the best. Especially to anyone who thinks I wouldn't wish them the best. I don't think I can completely move on until I let go of the reigns that is LS. I'm very grateful to this site. Be well everyone!
TaraMaiden Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I believe the only people who can delete your profile are Moderators or Admin. The best way to not be able to sign in, is to change your password to something that you could never ever possibly commit to memory - then delete any emails "confirming your new password as...." then simply never try to log in again and click the 'forgotten your password?' option......
IfiKnewThen Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 i never read your posts or knew your story..but i know LS is very helpful. reminds us we are not alone and can overcome. i understand tho that rehashing...sometimes unearths these feelings again...of grief and mourning. but thats a process. i would NOT recommend deleting ones account tho. u can look how far you have come....it helps. trust me u wont regret not deleting..but u might regret deleting your acct . you might want to look certain ppl up that you spoke to whatever. or track your progress. i have come back here a few times. why not just leave but dont delete acct. threre have been other who deleted and when LS had issues with it service once new people couldnt even get on. so my advise..is dont delete the account : ) good luck to you. God bless your journey. you will come out the other end fine.
IfiKnewThen Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 lol now i am reading your story. this is gonna take time..
Author lalalandman Posted May 5, 2012 Author Posted May 5, 2012 Tara you rock. Yes I understand it will take time. I know I'll come out of this stronger and have no doubt that everything will be ok. Just can't keep coming here. If I can't delete my profile then so be it. Doesn't matter. I'm glad there will still be good people here supporting others. That's the best thing about LS.
IfiKnewThen Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 i am still reading this entire thread ..and have more to go but i do have a take on all this. but have to go out and will catch up with the rest when i return. i know youre leaving LS..but now i came this far reading the story and am still going to post an opinion. and its not one that puts you or her down..... bbl
fetish1980 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 say lalaland, i remember when you first posting your story on here around this time last year. I haven't really been on here as much as i was in 2011, but i still like to chime in every so often and read some of my old posts to track my progress. Being said, i think you should keep your account open and chime in every so often. Don't disappear completely. fetish 1
Author lalalandman Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 Apparently I can't delete my account, however I do not plan on coming back. There's just nothing more to gain from coming here to LS, and I feel I've offered my fair share of advice. But I'm certain that leaving LS will help me to let go. Everytime I sign into this site, I'm reminded of my ex, and the past. In a sense, LS is still helping me even though I won't be around anymore. Leaving this site is pretty much taking the last step in the letting go process. I feel positive and certain of a good future. Most of all, it's comforting to know there will always be support for others out there.
sweetheart5381 Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 Do what you gotta do. We all have to, and if coming here brings you down then by all means walk away and do so with pride. You are doing well and want to continue to.. most of us understand all too well. To me, the ultimate NC is to get rid of any connection to them and your pain... if LS ties you to this pain then it is far better to forget it. All the best.
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 I've been brooding here for too long. I'll be deleting my profile and ending my service. I wish everyone the best. Especially to anyone who thinks I wouldn't wish them the best. I don't think I can completely move on until I let go of the reigns that is LS. I'm very grateful to this site. Be well everyone! So, you're dumping us and going NC?????!!!!!!! WTF???? LOL:) Wishing you all the best and wishing you every ounce of happiness and peace life has to offer.
Comfortably Numb Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 I thought about doing this myself, until recently. Finding out bewitched likes rimming, has brought about a vigorous new light into my loveshack soul. But then again, i am much more mysterious type person. I'd rather fade like a candle, than blow up like a bomb. Anyways, have a good life. May your compass always hold true to your heart. 1
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 i thought about doing this myself, until recently. Finding out bewitched likes rimming, has brought about a vigorous new light into my loveshack soul. But then again, i am much more mysterious type person. I'd rather fade like a candle, than blow up like a bomb. Anyways, have a good life. May your compass always hold true to your heart. cracking up!!!!!!:):)
IfiKnewThen Posted May 6, 2012 Posted May 6, 2012 i still am going to finish reading. i have like 5 more threads of urs to read and am going to post. so maybe someday take a look at it. but yes i have felt like u do too about LS. then when u do get over them more. if you come back. it doesnt affect you. and you dont have to look back to look forwrd and write and express your current feelings. you have to keep that in mind also. good luck ..but as i said i am gonna post back. because i really got into your story. and ps your a great writer. i felt the effects of it as i was reading it. to be continued..
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